Abbreviations & Acronyms

Below are abbreviations and acronyms commonly used on these boards. The top half of the page is divided into sections, the bottom half is the full list alphabetically.

The Marriage Bed Specific – including sexual terms:

ANR = Adult Nursing Relationship
AP = Anal play
AS = Anal Sex
Awakening = going from little or no interest in sex to very interested
BC = Birth Control
CO = Coconut Oil
CSA =Childhood Sexual Abuse
FE = Female Ejaculation
GK = Gatekeeping
GKr = Gatekeeper
GKd = Gatekept
HBC = Hormonal Birth Control
HD – High Drive -or- High Drive Spouse
HrD = Higher Drive -or- Higher Drive Spouse
IC = Intercourse
LD = Low Drive -or- Low Drive Spouse
LM = Lovemaking
LrD = Lower Drive -or- Lower Drive Spouse
M or MB= Masturbation, masturbate, etc
MB= Marriage Bed (as in our MB, their MB, my friend’s MB, your MB, etc) OR Masturbation (depending on context)
ML = Make (Making, Made) Love
MS = Manual stimulation
ND = No Drive -or- No Drive Spouse
NND = Nearly no drive
OP = Original Poster – or- Opening/Original Post
OS = Oral Sex
OT = Off Topic
PA = Passive Aggressive
PIV = Penis In Vagina
PONR = Point of No Return
RF = Refusal
RFr = Refuser
RFd = Refused
SD = Sex Drive
SSA = Same Sex Attraction
TMB = The Marriage Bed (of course!)
TTC = Trying to Conceive
UTI = Urinary Tract Infection
WOT = Woman On Top

Generally Accepted Acronyms:

+1 = “me too” or “I agree”
AFAIK = As Far As I Know
AISI = As I See It
BTDT = Been There, Done That
BTDTGTTS = Been There, Done That, Got The T-shirt
BTW = By The Way
EOM = End Of Message
ETA – Edited To Add
FTR = For The Record
FTW = For The Win
FWIW = For What It’s Worth
GMTA = Great Minds Think Alike
HTH = Hope That Helps
IIRC = If I Recall Correctly
IMO = In My Opinion
IMHO = In My Humble Opinion
IM(n)HO = In My Not Humble Opinion
IMNSHO = In My Not So Humble Opinion
IMVHO = In My Very Humble Opinion
IOW = In Other Words
IRL = In Real Life
ITA = I Totally Agree
JK = Just Kidding
JMO = Just My Opinion
KWIM = Know What I Mean?
LOL = Laughing Out Loud
OP = Original Poster – or- Opening/Original Post
OTOH = On The Other Hand
POV = Point Of View
ROFL or ROTFL = Rolling On (the) Floor Laughing
SAHM = Stay At Home Mom
TAFN = That’s All For Now
TIA = Thanks In Advance
TL;DR = Too long, didn’t read
TMI = Too Much Information
TTFN = Ta-ta for now.
YMMV = Your mileage may vary

Bracketed:

{{Lori}} = Give Lori (or whoever) a hug.
<xxxx> …. </xxxx> = From html, this is opening and closing a thing.
For example <rant> … </rant> could enclose a rant.

Relationship

BIL = Brother-in-law
DD = Dear Daughter
DH = Dear Husband (or Darling, Dang, etc, depending on the mood!)
DIL = Daughter-in-law
DK = Dear kids
DS = Dear Son
DW = Dear Wife (or Darling, Dang, etc, depending on the mood!)
FH = Future Husband
FIL = Father-in-law
FOO = Family of Origin
FW = Future Wife
GK = Grandkids
GP = Grandparent(s)
MIL = Mother-in-law
OM = Other Man
OW = Other Woman
PH = Pastor’s husband
PK = Pastor’s Kid
PW = Pastor’s Wife
SAHM = Stay At Home Mom
SD = Stepdaughter
SF = Stepfather
SIL = Son-in-law / Sister-in-law (depending on context)
SK = Stepkids
SM = Stepmother
SS = Stepson
STBX = Soon to be Ex
SWMBO = She Who Must Be Obeyed
WAHD = Work at Home Dad
X = Ex Spouse

Alphabetical listing of ALL:

{{Lori}} = Give Lori (or whoever) a hug.
<xxxx> …. </xxxx> = From html, this is opening and closing a thing. For example <rant> … </rant> could enclose a rant.
ACOA = Adult Child(ren) of Alcoholics
ANR = Adult Nursing Relationship
AP = Anal play
AS = Anal Sex
AFAIK = As Far As I Know
AISI = As I See It
Awakening = going from little or no interest in sex to very interested
BC = Birth Control
BIL = Brother-in-law
BTDT = Been There, Done That
BTDTGTTS = Been There, Done That, Got The T-shirt
BTW = By The Way
CO = Coconut Oil
CSA =Childhood Sexual Abuse
DD = Dear Daughter
DH = Dear Husband (or Darling, Dang, etc, depending on the mood!)
DIL = Daughter-in-law
DK = Dear kids
DS = Dear Son
DW = Dear Wife (or Darling, Dang, etc, depending on the mood!)
EOM = End Of Message
ETA – Edited To Add
FE = Female Ejaculation
FH = Future Husband
FIL = Father-in-law
FOO = Family of Origin
FTR = For The Record
FTW = For The Win
FW = Future Wife
FWIW = For What It’s Worth
GK = Gatekeeping -or- Grandkids (depending on context)
GKr = Gatekeeper
GKd = Gatekept
GMTA = Great Minds Think Alike
GP = Grandparent(s)
HBC = Hormonal Birth Control
HD – High Drive -or- High Drive Spouse
HrD = Higher Drive -or- Higher Drive Spouse
HTH = Hope That Helps
IC = Intercourse
IIRC = If I Recall Correctly
IMHO = In My Humble Opinion
IM(n)HO = In My Not Humble Opinion
IMNSHO = In My Not So Humble Opinion
IMO = In My Opinion
IMVHO = In My Very Humble Opinion
IOW = In Other Words
IRL = In Real Life
ITA = I Totally Agree
JK = Just Kidding
JMO = Just My Opinion
KWIM = Know What I Mean?
LD = Low Drive -or- Low Drive Spouse
LM = Lovemaking
LOL = Laughing Out Loud
LrD = Lower Drive -or- Lower Drive Spouse
M or MB= Masturbation, masturbate, etc
MB= Marriage Bed (as in our MB, their MB, my friend’s MB, your MB, etc) OR Masturbation (depending on context)
MIL = Mother-in-law
ML = Make (or Making) Love
MS = Manual Stimulation
ND = No drive
NND = Nearly no drive
OM = Other Man
OP = Original Poster -or – Opening/Original Post
OS = Oral Sex
OT = Off Topic
OTOH = On The Other Hand
OW = Other Woman
PA = Passive Aggressive
PH = Pastor’s husband
PIV = Penis In Vagina
PK = Pastor’s Kid
PONR = Point of No Return
POV = Point Of View
PW = Pastor’s Wife
RF = Refusal
RFr = Refuser
RFd = Refused
ROFL or ROTFL = Rolling On (the) Floor Laughing
SAHD = Stay At Home Dad
SAHM = Stay At Home Mom
SD = Stepdaughter – or – Sex Drive (depending on context)
SF = Stepfather
SIL = Son-in-law / Sister-in-law (depending on context)
SK = Stepkids
SM = Stepmother
SS = Stepson
SSA = Same Sex Attraction
STBX = Soon to be Ex
SWMBO = She Who Must Be Obeyed
TAFN = That’s All For Now
TIA = Thanks In Advance
TL;DR = Too long, didn’t read
TMB = The Marriage Bed (of course!)
TMI = Too Much Information
TTC = Trying to Conceive
TTFN = Ta-ta for now
UTI = Urinary Tract Infection
WAHD = Work at Home Dad
WAHM= Work at Home Mom
WOT = Woman On Top
X = Ex spouse
YMMV = Your mileage may vary