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by Link+Zelda
Thu Jun 23, 2022 8:44 pm
Forum: Birth Control
Topic: NFP
Replies: 10
Views: 323

Re: NFP

We used NFP (i.e. sympto-thermal method) completely successfully for the first 12 years of our marriage. For the first year or so, it was NFP. After that, it was NFP except during the fertile time, which we then used condoms. No accidental pregnancies. Three of our kids and one miscarriage happened ...
by Link+Zelda
Thu Jun 23, 2022 1:23 pm
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 06/23/2022 - What is your favorite non-sexual thing your spouse does for you?
Replies: 14
Views: 294

Re: 06/23/2022 - What is your favorite non-sexual thing your spouse does for you?

SeekingChange wrote: Thu Jun 23, 2022 8:38 am Back rubs . . .
From what you've shared before, can't back rubs actually fall into the sexual category for you?
by Link+Zelda
Thu Jun 23, 2022 1:20 pm
Forum: Rules, How To's and FAQ's
Topic: Board Redesign?
Replies: 27
Views: 1177

Re: Board Redesign?

I like the dark version, too, except when PaulB posts. His blue ink is almost invisible. Haven’t seen him in a while, though. I hope he’s doing okay. I use ProSilver Dark too. I can usually read @PaulB, but it's the yellow-highlighted text that is a real struggle for me with this "dark mode&qu...
by Link+Zelda
Thu Jun 23, 2022 10:25 am
Forum: What Is Okay?
Topic: Sex toys for singles?
Replies: 19
Views: 5472

Re: Sex toys for singles?

That's the problem with fantasies and pornography (besides uncovering someone who is not your husband/wife's shame!), it tends to drift towards imaging them as a sexual slave/toy for you to play with. That's just my sad experience. Well said, and I believe very true for many people. While some may ...
by Link+Zelda
Wed Jun 22, 2022 11:30 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 06/22/2022 - Unique Challenges?
Replies: 16
Views: 691

Re: 06/22/2022 - Unique Challenges?

Totally forgot to include our #2... We have no relatives or close friends living close to us. And because of that, we've never had an off day from the kids since the time the oldest was born, not even one. Literally we've been with at least one (almost always all) of our kids every single calendar d...
by Link+Zelda
Wed Jun 22, 2022 11:23 am
Forum: Orgasm & Sex Drive
Topic: Too fast
Replies: 15
Views: 685

Re: Too fast

…but, there is a difference, and it’s a huge one. You could have immediately gone again if you so chose. I understand your “one and done” thing, but that only refers to orgasm, not participation. And if participation is possible, then O is too… even if not probable. How is this different from men? ...
by Link+Zelda
Wed Jun 22, 2022 9:17 am
Forum: Intercourse (PIV) & Positions
Topic: Father's Day Presents in the MB?
Replies: 17
Views: 965

Re: Father's Day Presents in the MB?

No Father's Day presents in the MB, or really anywhere else either...too busy taking care of the kids to do that.

And we don't really celebrate other holidays in the MB either except occasionally the anniversary or her birthday.
by Link+Zelda
Wed Jun 22, 2022 9:01 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 06/22/2022 - Unique Challenges?
Replies: 16
Views: 691

Re: 06/22/2022 - Unique Challenges?

The #1 for us has to be difficulty in orgasm for her, which is a story I've told several times here. We went over 12 years married (plus over a year of fooling around before that) without getting her an O. MS, OS, PIV...none of them worked. It required, and still requires, a vibrator (and typically ...
by Link+Zelda
Tue Jun 21, 2022 9:21 pm
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Resolving difference in libido
Replies: 34
Views: 744

Re: Resolving difference in libido

Much of what I'm going to say has already been said, but I'll just throw out my opinion as well, even if there's some repeating. I was glad to see @Lightbulb mention 1 Cor 7, as my gut response is that this is a situation of depriving. As is often the case, you're going to need to find a middle grou...
by Link+Zelda
Tue Jun 21, 2022 5:22 pm
Forum: Female Orgasm Difficulties
Topic: Intimate Rose Kegel Weights — Journal
Replies: 70
Views: 5370

Re: Intimate Rose Kegel Weights — Journal

The one good orgasm I had very early on is still the only one since I started the weights, which tells me what I already knew—the condition of my pelvic floor isn’t the only reason for my challenges in that department. You're post-menopausal, right? Hormonal changes from menopause definitely affect...

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