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by Link+Zelda
Sun Sep 26, 2021 5:56 pm
Forum: Orgasm & Sex Drive
Topic: Multiple orgasms for men
Replies: 27
Views: 3768

Re: Multiple orgasms for men

Update on this for me: I actually have managed this (a second/sequential O) a third time this year, for four times ever with PIV. Once again, it happened right after fingering my wife to O after I'd O'd in PIV. Again, no idea if I've always been able to do this or if it's only been unlocked with age...
by Link+Zelda
Fri Sep 24, 2021 9:35 pm
Forum: Other Sexual Changes, Challenges Difficulties
Topic: What Effects Have You Seen from "Purity Culture"?
Replies: 32
Views: 2506

Re: What Effects Have You Seen from

When did this "purity culture" and these type of messages actually begin? I remember a little something about saving yourself and signing some kind of promise, and that was the late 80's - early 90's, but I sure never heard the messages that you all say you heard....and I grew up in the B...
by Link+Zelda
Thu Sep 23, 2021 8:36 am
Forum: Rules, How To's and FAQ's
Topic: Live Chat/App
Replies: 6
Views: 174

Re: Live Chat/App

I agree with @SC, @DG, @Dale, and @Urn-Mic. The negatives for such a feature outweigh the positives, probably by a large margin. To get a glimpse of what a chat-like feature can do to a community like TMB, check out this comment: https://www.themarriagebed.net/viewtopic.php?p=42209#p42209 . I'm sure...
by Link+Zelda
Sun Sep 19, 2021 9:01 pm
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 09/20/2021 - Attractiveness with Aging?
Replies: 20
Views: 593

09/20/2021 - Attractiveness with Aging?

My wife recently mentioned how it was "unfair" that men get more attractive as they get older. This got me to thinking about that topic quite a bit, and I thought it might make for a good QOTD. So... Do you think men actually get more attractive as they get older? If so, is it most men? I...
by Link+Zelda
Thu Sep 16, 2021 9:51 am
Forum: Introduce Yourself!
Topic: SeeWhereItGoes
Replies: 4
Views: 125

Re: SeeWhereItGoes

Welcome to TMB. Hope you learn a lot here and can also share some knowledge from your own experiences!

Your situation is quite similar to ours--we've been married a touch longer, our four are a touch older, and my wife wasn't evangelical, but otherwise quite similar.
by Link+Zelda
Wed Sep 15, 2021 11:28 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 09/15/2021 - Best position choice if you know you will climax quickly?
Replies: 15
Views: 1156

Re: 09/15/2021 - Best position choice if you know you will climax quickly?

To answer the question in the title literally without any other information, the answer would be mutual masturbation (so I have full control over my approach to climax and can hold off until necessary), or if PIV is required, probably standing missionary (or an equivalent) at the side of the bed wit...
by Link+Zelda
Tue Sep 14, 2021 11:21 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 09/13/2021 - Jewelry?
Replies: 21
Views: 695

Re: 09/13/2021 - Jewelry?

I particularly don't like rings as I personally know several guys who have lost fingers from doing mechanical or construction work while wearing them. I never wore a ring during my first marriage. This has become a bit of an issue with the future Mrs. as she really wants me to wear a wedding band. ...
by Link+Zelda
Tue Sep 14, 2021 8:23 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 09/14/21 - Would you rather...
Replies: 26
Views: 730

Re: 09/19/21 - Would you rather...

I would pick option B. High school wasn't horrible for me (Jr. High was worse), but it wasn't my favorite. However, Option B is what I'm already doing, so it wouldn't really change anything. And unlike SLS, I'm not assuming that Friday/Saturday would be "off". The reality of it is that tak...
by Link+Zelda
Sun Sep 12, 2021 9:37 pm
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 09/13/2021 - Jewelry?
Replies: 21
Views: 695

09/13/2021 - Jewelry?

Do you and/or your spouse frequently wear jewelry?

If so, what type(s)?

If not, why not?
by Link+Zelda
Sun Sep 12, 2021 6:18 pm
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 9/10/21 - what did you do with your finances after marriage?
Replies: 31
Views: 1207

Re: 9/10/21 - what did you do with your finances after marriage?

I always laugh at Dave Ramsey's old story about the couple who started monitoring their spending habits and came back to the advisor and said, "I found out where our retirement money went. We've been eating it!" They admitted they were spending $800/month going out to eat rather than savi...

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