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by Link+Zelda
Sat Sep 24, 2022 3:41 pm
Forum: Okay, Bad Idea, or Sin?
Topic: DISCUSSION - Watching porn WITH your spouse
Replies: 78
Views: 7060

Re: DISCUSSION - Watching porn WITH your spouse

I'm a data analyst by trade, and have a 30+ year career as a technologist in one of only two meccas of computer software in the United States. You aren't the only one here with an expertise in data analysis. And an argument from authority (and not even one that can be confirmed) really isn't a good...
by Link+Zelda
Fri Sep 23, 2022 1:52 pm
Forum: Pregnancy and Post-partum
Topic: How long did you wait after the wedding?
Replies: 38
Views: 555

Re: How long did you wait after the wedding?

As @FnaM said, only you and your husband can decide. It's entirely situation dependent. That said, I think the current trend for couples to get married and have their first kid at later ages than was previously normal is not a good one. I warned some of my subordinates when they asked about it almos...
by Link+Zelda
Fri Sep 23, 2022 1:08 pm
Forum: Okay, Bad Idea, or Sin?
Topic: DISCUSSION - Watching porn WITH your spouse
Replies: 78
Views: 7060

Re: DISCUSSION - Watching porn WITH your spouse

”Force, fraud or coercion” is the definition that I am going by. Further, I strongly disagree that “a lot” is wrong, especially since sites like PornHub have quietly removed thousands of videos of underage kids means that it is “only a little”. We will have to agree to disagree. I provided numbers ...
by Link+Zelda
Wed Sep 21, 2022 11:01 am
Forum: Okay, Bad Idea, or Sin?
Topic: DISCUSSION - Watching porn WITH your spouse
Replies: 78
Views: 7060

Re: DISCUSSION - Watching porn WITH your spouse

Aside from the sin aspect of it, the people involved in porn are in a lot of cases victims of sex trafficking, and that’s not ok, ever! While "a lot" is a subjective term, as I mentioned (and backed up with data) earlier in this thread , that's largely a bogus argument. It may have applie...
by Link+Zelda
Mon Sep 19, 2022 9:57 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 09/19/2022 - Real-Life Sex Discussions
Replies: 25
Views: 1018

09/19/2022 - Real-Life Sex Discussions

How often do you discuss sex in real life with people you know? Do you have a small group of friends where it's discussed? A large group? No one at all?

Why do you think it's easier to discuss, generally, here at TMB than in real life?
by Link+Zelda
Mon Sep 12, 2022 8:59 pm
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Can Sex Be A Hobby?
Replies: 12
Views: 560

Re: Can Sex Be A Hobby?

SeekingChange wrote: Mon Sep 12, 2022 7:52 pm ...and I sure wasn't getting paid for it. :lol:
But the job comes with a ton of "benefits!"

And, yes, sex can be a hobby, just like many other things. Totally agree with the posters above.
by Link+Zelda
Mon Sep 12, 2022 7:57 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 09/12/2022 - Hobbies from Kids
Replies: 5
Views: 221

09/12/2022 - Hobbies from Kids

For the parents here, what hobbies, if any, did you and/or your spouse pick up from your kids? Did you stick with this hobby, or was it just a temporary thing? For those who aren't parents or don't have kids old enough to have hobbies, did your parents pick up any of their kids' hobbies? (I guess th...
by Link+Zelda
Mon Sep 05, 2022 6:05 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 09/05/2022 - Initiation
Replies: 15
Views: 920

09/05/2022 - Initiation

Is there any awkwardness, tension, or unspoken discomfort in your MB with initiating a sexual encounter or asking for a specific act?

If so, why do you think that is?

If not, was there ever any in the past? And if so, what ended it?
by Link+Zelda
Wed Aug 31, 2022 7:41 am
Forum: Intercourse (PIV) & Positions
Topic: Positional issues
Replies: 21
Views: 1016

Re: Positional issues

Interesting on the retroverted uterus. Zelda has one too, but this position still works for us. I suppose it depends on the physical build of both spouses, and not all retroverted uteri (or angled penises) are built equally!
by Link+Zelda
Tue Aug 30, 2022 6:03 am
Forum: Intercourse (PIV) & Positions
Topic: Positional issues
Replies: 21
Views: 1016

Re: Positional issues

I like @benny's suggestion, which leads to another question: can you get ANY rear-entry position to work? That would include @benny's "reverse cowgirl" suggestion, as well as things like the spooning position. Although implied, I don't think anyone has explicitly said that doggy style just...

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