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by Link+Zelda
Tue May 04, 2021 9:32 pm
Forum: Oral Sex
Topic: Opinions of transfer to kissing?
Replies: 17
Views: 875

Re: Opinions of transfer to kissing?

Even though we don't do OS in either direction anymore, this was never really a problem for us when we did it back in the day. Kissing after OS just seemed part of the deal. I believe the term I've seen floated around for this is "What's good for the goose is good for the gander."
by Link+Zelda
Tue May 04, 2021 9:28 pm
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 5/5/2021 - Who said "I love you" first?
Replies: 9
Views: 176

Re: 5/5/2021 - Who said "I love you" first?

I (Link) did. It was 3-4 weeks into our dating IIRC. I just told her that when she was at my apartment one night after work...nothing special about the setting.
by Link+Zelda
Mon May 03, 2021 7:24 am
Forum: Masturbation in Marriage
Topic: Mutual?
Replies: 13
Views: 736

Re: Mutual?

While I obviously "agree with myself", I do wonder how definitions play a role. Take a look at the definition from Dictionary.com : noun the stimulation or manipulation of one's own genitals, especially to orgasm; sexual self-gratification. the stimulation, by manual or other means exclusi...
by Link+Zelda
Sun May 02, 2021 8:46 pm
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 05/03/2021 - Worried About Your Body?
Replies: 19
Views: 680

Re: 05/03/2021 - Worried About Your Body?

For me ( Link ), I was worried about the scrotal raphe and penile raphe. I thought one of two things was possible: I had some sort of horrible damage to my genitals when I was a baby that left scars on both my scrotum or penis. I was born with some sort of abnormal genitalia that had to be surgicall...
by Link+Zelda
Sun May 02, 2021 8:39 pm
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 05/03/2021 - Worried About Your Body?
Replies: 19
Views: 680

05/03/2021 - Worried About Your Body?

While growing up--either prepubescent or during puberty--were you ever worried about some part of your body being abnormal?
by Link+Zelda
Sat May 01, 2021 8:18 am
Forum: Other Non-sexual Marriage Issues
Topic: Would you stop a wedding at the last minute?
Replies: 11
Views: 360

Re: Would you stop a wedding at the last minute?

Stopping would depend upon the circumstances and the person involved. For "last-minute jitters", for most people, the answer is that it's "just nerves" and to just get married. However, there are a subset of personalities (those that don't think everything through early) where it...
by Link+Zelda
Sat May 01, 2021 7:05 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 04/13/21 - Hickeys....yeah or nay?
Replies: 26
Views: 1570

Re: 04/13/21 - Hickeys....yeah or nay?

I don't believe I've ever received one except for the one I gave myself (on my arm) as a kid without knowing what I was doing... Overall, I could take it or leave it in receiving them. I figure, as a married couple, we can do what we want as long as it doesn't look too trashy. Zelda got several on h...
by Link+Zelda
Fri Apr 30, 2021 4:12 pm
Forum: Masturbation in Marriage
Topic: Mutual?
Replies: 13
Views: 736

Re: Mutual?

I consider mutual to be the “side-by-side” that George described. The stimulation of your spouse is what I would call manual sex (MS), not masturbation. When only one spouse self stimulates, but does it in the presence of his/her spouse, I consider that “shared masturbation”. Completely by yourself ...
by Link+Zelda
Thu Apr 29, 2021 10:13 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 04/29/2021 - What were your first impressions?
Replies: 25
Views: 1119

Re: 04/29/2021 - What were your first impressions?

My thought was along the lines of "Why isn't she fully prepared for this event we're at?" I also thought she looked nervous.

Definitely did not immediately think "marriage material"...guess I can't predict the future!
by Link+Zelda
Thu Apr 29, 2021 9:24 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 04/28/2021 - If you could change an aspect of how sex works what would you change?
Replies: 31
Views: 1428

Re: 04/28/2021 - If you could change an aspect of how sex works what would you change?

Make PIV feel like AS to me (so it won't take much for me to O. Kinda like how it usually doesn't take men much to O) or increase my DH's drive so we match. I know this isn't a topic for problems/answers, so I'll keep this short. Have you considered using a butt plug during PIV to try to get some o...

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