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by Link+Zelda
Mon Aug 15, 2022 6:28 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 08/15/2022 - Lighting Preference
Replies: 18
Views: 376

08/15/2022 - Lighting Preference

Are you and your spouse happy with the lighting situation in your MB?

Would one or both of you prefer more, or perhaps less, lighting when you have sex?

Do your preferences agree, or disagree? Why do you two feel the way you do?
by Link+Zelda
Mon Aug 08, 2022 9:52 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 08/08/2022 - Music in the MB
Replies: 17
Views: 469

08/08/2022 - Music in the MB

Yes, this has been discussed before, but it’s been a while. Have you tried incorporating background music into your MB sessions? If not, is that a mutual decision, preferred by just one spouse, or simply something you haven’t considered? If you do utilize music, how often and what type(s)? How did y...
by Link+Zelda
Thu Aug 04, 2022 10:05 pm
Forum: Activities & Items
Topic: First time vibrator advice
Replies: 13
Views: 856

Re: First time vibrator advice

@Beaglebag, I am so glad to see you post this thread! I feel like it's slowly been building up to this for a long time. :-) I think the most common starting point recommended for newbies to vibes is the bullet vibrator. This is external only, small, relatively inexpensive, and usually quite effectiv...
by Link+Zelda
Tue Aug 02, 2022 9:28 pm
Forum: Marriage Books, Resources, Blogs, Sites
Topic: Come As You Are
Replies: 32
Views: 1780

Re: Come As You Are

Wow, if this is overwhelming for me, it will probably be overwhelming for him, too. It says one kind is best for beginners so maybe start there? If you're talking about vibrators, I think you'd do better to start a new thread about beginning with them and how to start. There's lots of experience he...
by Link+Zelda
Tue Aug 02, 2022 8:09 pm
Forum: Marriage Books, Resources, Blogs, Sites
Topic: Come As You Are
Replies: 32
Views: 1780

Re: Come As You Are

Someone here suggested a vibrator and so did the author. I honestly don't know where to begin and have talked about it with DH, but he has been pretty noncommittal about whether we should try one or not. Have you tried just telling him that you'd like to explore getting the same level of pleasure h...
by Link+Zelda
Mon Aug 01, 2022 10:35 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 08/01/22 - Minor Issues
Replies: 5
Views: 312

08/01/22 - Minor Issues

Have you had any minor issues that have negatively affected your MB recently? By minor, I mean something that wouldn’t warrant a full post here but may still be annoying occasionally.

If you have, were you able to remedy the issue?
by Link+Zelda
Thu Jul 28, 2022 12:05 pm
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: What is it Like?
Replies: 15
Views: 1004

Re: What is it Like?

So I realized that something I have never experienced, and possibly will never experience, is the fun of bringing another person to O. I am guessing you mean by being the sole cause/provider, no aid (toy)? That’s a good question. I would say your “sole” terminology is a bit strong. My definition wo...
by Link+Zelda
Thu Jul 28, 2022 11:57 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: What is it Like?
Replies: 15
Views: 1004

What is it Like?

So I realized that something I have never experienced, and possibly will never experience, is the fun of bringing another person to O. Thus, I am curious to hear from others…what is it like to bring someone to O? How does it make you feel? Do you have pride, or maybe a feeling of accomplishment? Fee...
by Link+Zelda
Wed Jul 27, 2022 10:42 pm
Forum: The Theology of Sex
Topic: Does your sexuality expressed reflect 1 Corinthians 13?
Replies: 20
Views: 1412

Re: Does your sexuality expressed reflect 1 Corinthians 13?

Beaglebag wrote: Mon Jul 11, 2022 9:07 pm Sometimes, I am. Sometimes, I am impatient and/or jealous of the fact he experiences O almost every time and I never have.
Have you told your husband this? There is nothing wrong with you wanting (and expecting) to experience the height of sexual pleasure too.
by Link+Zelda
Mon Jul 25, 2022 11:14 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 07/25/2022 - How Visual?
Replies: 21
Views: 1144

07/25/2022 - How Visual?

How visual are you and your spouse with regards to sexual things?

Would you fall into (a) not visual, (b), somewhat visual, or (c) strongly visual as a category?

Has it changed with time or hormones? Does a difference between spouses cause communication issues or frustration?

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