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by SeekingChange
Sun Feb 28, 2021 11:36 pm
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 03/01/21 - Male Physical Strength
Replies: 3
Views: 26

Re: 03/01/21 - Male Physical Strength

Us girls couldn't open a jar, we went to dad. Though my dad was domineering and wanted things his way, he was a protector, and I always felt safe with him. I guess I have always compared guys to my dad, and I have been very disappointed, because I have interpreted differences as "weakness"...
by SeekingChange
Sun Feb 28, 2021 8:40 pm
Forum: Introduce Yourself!
Topic: Txguy
Replies: 3
Views: 31

Re: Txguy

It's wonderful to hear a little about you. It sounds like you have experiences you can speak from.
Glad you are here!
by SeekingChange
Sun Feb 28, 2021 5:56 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: The "Buy-in Cost"
Replies: 25
Views: 712

Re: The

SC: I do not believe that having sex in a Godly, Christ-Centered marriage is ever going to be DAMAGING to you or the relationship. Maybe it won’t be super fulfilling, or just an act-of-love for one of the spouses involved, but not damaging. To say it’s doing “damage” is pretty significant Christ-ce...
by SeekingChange
Sat Feb 27, 2021 4:33 pm
Forum: Single Again
Topic: Sex with the ex
Replies: 25
Views: 506

Re: Sex with the ex

Duchess wrote: Sat Feb 27, 2021 4:19 pmCan you tell me what verse you are thinking of?
Deut. 24:1-4

eta: I still think one needs to be careful in applying old covenant to our ways.
by SeekingChange
Sat Feb 27, 2021 2:45 pm
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: The "Buy-in Cost"
Replies: 25
Views: 712

Re: The "Buy-in Cost"

If your marriage is in a good place, what are the costs? Maybe I’m being obtuse? I am wondering if you are an introvert or an extrovert? Often times it's outside factors that have the biggest effect on my "buy-in" cost. The more I have put out with others, the more my "energy" c...
by SeekingChange
Sat Feb 27, 2021 11:36 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: The "Buy-in Cost"
Replies: 25
Views: 712

The "Buy-in Cost"

I just read The Generous Husband's, The Buy-in Cost of Sex , can I just say, "Yes, yes, YES!" ::clap I hope husbands get it, but I don't know if they will....just like they say women can't understand their emotional connection with sex and the link between their penis and how they feel as ...
by SeekingChange
Sat Feb 27, 2021 9:46 am
Forum: Single Again
Topic: Sex with the ex
Replies: 25
Views: 506

Re: Sex with the ex

@Seekingchange what we call the Old Testament is just as much God's word as what we call the New Testament. It was the Old Testament that the Apostle Paul was referring to when he said that all scripture is breathed out by God and is useful for teaching, rebuking and training in righteousness. Than...
by SeekingChange
Sat Feb 27, 2021 8:43 am
Forum: Oral Sex
Topic: She is AFRAID, but willing.
Replies: 15
Views: 1247

Re: She is AFRAID, but willing.

It seems to me that few actions toward your DH, that cost so little, will be as meaningful, appreciated, and intimate as this. I know this is meant to be an encouragement, but it really bothers me. How do you, or any other, know how much it "costs" her? Being that I am often in the place ...
by SeekingChange
Sat Feb 27, 2021 6:51 am
Forum: Single Again
Topic: Sex with the ex
Replies: 25
Views: 506

Re: Sex with the ex

This is a question I have pondered because this very situation is very near to us, and personally affects some family members. I don't know when the spiritual covenant marriage begins and ends, but it sure would seem that a ceremony (wedding/divorce decree), at the very least, represents the heart. ...
by SeekingChange
Fri Feb 26, 2021 4:35 pm
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 02/26/21 - Seasonal sex place & positions?
Replies: 13
Views: 457

Re: 02/26/21 - Seasonal sex place & positions?

It's the season in life that makes a bigger difference in this area, than the seasons and weather.

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