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by SeekingChange
Mon Nov 28, 2022 12:17 pm
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 11/28/2022 - Christmas "Action"
Replies: 6
Views: 84

Re: 11/28/2022 - Christmas "Action"

My answer is a "no" across the board.... but, I have been known to come up with ideas fairly last minute.
by SeekingChange
Mon Nov 28, 2022 11:35 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Unannounced Touching - Thoughts?
Replies: 17
Views: 624

Re: Unannounced Touching - Thoughts?

I don't know if one's culture or the diversity they grew up within school, makes a difference.... but the majority of my experiences were by guys of a different race, or they were several years older.
by SeekingChange
Sun Nov 27, 2022 11:31 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Light, semi light or dark
Replies: 15
Views: 327

Re: Light, semi light or dark

We don't do dark anymore, unless we are having "stealth sex"... meaning we are in a situation that we have to be a little more covert.

Otherwise, we typically use softer lighting or natural light.
by SeekingChange
Fri Nov 25, 2022 9:48 pm
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Unannounced Touching - Thoughts?
Replies: 17
Views: 624

Re: Unannounced Touching - Thoughts?

I experienced a lot of what was mentioned. The boys noticing the bra because I was one of the first in my class to wear them. In jr/sr high, the groping, the pinching, the lewd and suggestive comments, the being cornered against a locker or a wall, etc, etc. But, I don't feel it transferred into my ...
by SeekingChange
Fri Nov 25, 2022 3:29 pm
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 11/25/22 - Is your tree up?
Replies: 17
Views: 313

Re: 11/25/22 - Is you tree up?

Nope.... we are out of town, and my daughter and I, whom she's usually the Xmas decorator, will be out of town until 12/4. Because she works, I don't know when it will get up (or if).

I don't seek out listening to Xmas music, but the daughters have been listening to it some.
by SeekingChange
Wed Nov 23, 2022 2:18 pm
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Is sex a love language?
Replies: 12
Views: 361

Re: Is sex a love language?

Though sex isn't a LL in the traditional sense.... I have heard it said that it is a love language all its own. I know it speaks and shows love to and from my husband.
by SeekingChange
Tue Nov 22, 2022 10:46 pm
Forum: Introduce Yourself!
Topic: AmwhoIam - Brand new here
Replies: 6
Views: 272

Re: AmwhoIam - Brand new here

Welcome. I pray you find some hope, encouragement and direction here.
by SeekingChange
Tue Nov 22, 2022 10:45 pm
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 11/23/2022 - Do you ever just "think too much"?
Replies: 12
Views: 449

Re: 11/23/2022 - Do you ever just "think too much"?

I have been told I am an overthinker.
by SeekingChange
Tue Nov 22, 2022 4:13 pm
Forum: Introduce Yourself!
Topic: Kitty - Just saying Hi & about me
Replies: 7
Views: 247

Re: Kitty - Just saying Hi & about me

Glad you have returned! :wave
by SeekingChange
Tue Nov 22, 2022 11:45 am
Forum: Activities & Items
Topic: How can we get out of a Sexual rut?
Replies: 9
Views: 521

Re: How can we get out of a Sexual rut?

My husband got this book to do sometime... https://www.amazon.com/101-Nights-Great ... 0962962872

We actually haven't done it, but it has potential. It has laid out plans for him to organize, and some for her to organize. They are sealed, so there is no peeking.

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