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by SeekingChange
Tue Feb 07, 2023 9:58 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 02/07/2023 - Facial hair?
Replies: 13
Views: 213

Re: 02/07/2023 - Facial hair?

I'm clean shaven. I once tried to grow a beard for about a month and DW hated it. She really does not like them, especially for kissing or anything more intimate. My husband was concerned about this and he was worried I would keep him away because of it. In that first week, it really poked my lips ...
by SeekingChange
Tue Feb 07, 2023 4:44 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 02/07/2023 - Facial hair?
Replies: 13
Views: 213

Re: 02/07/2023 - Facial hair?

My husband has always been clean shaven, in part, because he wouldn't have been able to grow anything if he wanted to when he was younger. But, he has been growing a beard for 3 weeks now....and I/he/others are really liking it. We have heard to give it 4 weeks to see what it will do before doing an...
by SeekingChange
Mon Feb 06, 2023 9:56 pm
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 02/07/2023 - Facial hair?
Replies: 13
Views: 213

02/07/2023 - Facial hair?

What's your preference for the husband's facial hair? Any particular reason why?

Has it always been the preference? If not, what brought on the change?
by SeekingChange
Mon Feb 06, 2023 1:47 pm
Forum: Marriage Roles - Headship/Submission, Unsaved
Topic: What is my Biblical role?
Replies: 36
Views: 1386

Re: What is my Biblical role?

On a side note, I've had several people (men) send me emails via this forum to ask me if I'm a "submissive person" or if I" still look as good as I did in the photos", etc. I may appear to be vulnerable and naive because of my situation, but I am not desperate enough to fall int...
by SeekingChange
Mon Feb 06, 2023 12:40 pm
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Sexual freedom
Replies: 10
Views: 605

Re: Sexual freedom

I say "kudos" to you and your finding freedom!
by SeekingChange
Mon Feb 06, 2023 9:53 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 02/06/2023 - Eyes
Replies: 12
Views: 341

Re: 02/06/2023 - Eyes

Mine are typically closed for focusing. I know my husband closes them some, but I think he typically has them open... he is usually intently watching me to watch for signs of where I am in my arousal and building to my climax....apparently there's something my neck that is very telling....and when h...
by SeekingChange
Mon Feb 06, 2023 6:26 am
Forum: Other Non-sexual Marriage Issues
Topic: Why does he do this?
Replies: 6
Views: 187

Re: Why does he do this?

It could be as simple as it's his personality. My husband is a talker and he "sees" people all the time...male, female, friend or stranger. There's nothing wrong with being friendly, and extroverts actually get filled up by being around other people, and that could be the "lighting up...
by SeekingChange
Sun Feb 05, 2023 6:39 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Sexual freedom
Replies: 10
Views: 605

Re: Sexual freedom

He said if life causes you to only be able to do 60% of what you used to be able to do, you can still do 100% of that 60%. I saw this concept on a meme, and it was actually very impactful for me, knowing where I have been and how I am in finding my "new normal", not knowing if I will ever...
by SeekingChange
Fri Feb 03, 2023 7:29 am
Forum: Orgasm & Sex Drive
Topic: Orgasms as stress relief...
Replies: 19
Views: 665

Re: Orgasms as stress relief...

I would guess the hormone release could help in theory... but where she is mentally might be more telling. If working for an orgasm raises stress levels (cortisol) could that negate the positive hormone release from an orgasm? Will certain stress levels actually make it where she wouldn't be able to...
by SeekingChange
Thu Feb 02, 2023 9:45 pm
Forum: Okay, Bad Idea, or Sin?
Topic: Dealing with crossdressing
Replies: 30
Views: 2664

Re: Dealing with crossdressing

so, we STILL aren't to murder, steal, commit adultery, etc. In our covenant, we have this, from Jesus Himself, "This is My commandment, that you love one another, just as I have loved you. " (Jn 15:12) Why do we new covenant believers feel we need the Law, when all we have to do is look a...

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