I have been going back and watching some old sitcoms, thanks to Hulu. The actual show doesn't make me feel better, but the intro theme song sure does.....Cheers.

Movies.... musicals, like The Greatest Showman, the ultimate feel good movie.

Any other men wake up with sex on the mind? It's common for my husband to have an erection wake him and then his thought is about sex.

"What time is it?" And it's closely followed by thoughts of trying to go back to sleep.

When you wake up in the morning, what is the very first thing you think of?

I don't know if it's the biggest difference, but a major difference in our bedroom is how vocal women are, like Meg Ryan's portrayal in "When Harry Met Sally." Not that I am an expert on sex scenes on the screen (Tv, movie, porn, etc) but I can't recall a portrayal of a woman enjoying sex ...

I have responsive desire (closer to no desire). Do any women have advice on how to initiate sex if you have responsive desire? If you are truly just talking about initiating sex, it can be as simple as saying, "Wanna have sex? ;) " Also doing some teasing with fondling/touch can be an eas...

Goopa wrote: ↑Fri May 13, 2022 8:14 pm I seem to be the one with do sex drive and I don't know why

Are you able to get your hormones checked?

For our 20th and 25th we took 10 and 12 day trips. For others in this past decade, my husband takes the day off and we spend it together, doing whatever. It usually consists of some shopping, a nice meal, and the relaxing in our room.

Depends on the situation. In my marriage, I definitely listen much more than I talk. By nature, I will listen more than talk..... but I am not that socially awkward person that it is like pulling teeth to get them to talk.

... or the 1990’s when my kids were little, so I could love on them again. That's good! I want to do the same....that would be early to mid 2000's for me. If we could make changes, the other option would me mid-90's, specifically around our wedding and first month so we could start things in s diff...