Handwashing dishes. For the most part, everything goes in the dishwasher, but when they can't, he often will do the dishes that need handwashed.

I am wondering, if the husband started acting like a jerk and went back to ways that caused tension, such as gone at work a lot, ignoring her, dismissing her, etc... would the wife still pursue acting on her sexual urges? Would she still have sexual urges for her husband and pursue them? @Irnmyk, I ...

I have no recollection. I would guess he did, because he is naturally expressive that way, and I didn't grow up verbalizing love so I would have naturally been more restrained. But who knows, I could have because I was more of the pursuer.

I dress for what my plans are for the day. I am not sure what you mean by "dress up", but I don't dress up beyond what's normal just to stay home. There were a few years that I had some sundresses that I had for the purpose to wear around the house.

Being on time.
Offering to rub my back without me having to ask.

Could not culture be molded by what is biological in the majority? As with anything, there's likely a bell curve, and just because some, and likely the minority of women aren't naturally reactive, doesn't mean the majority aren't, and vice versa.

<5%... Early in our marriage I used to have to drive so that he could work on the road, and I came to resent it, so I have no desire to drive if I don't have to. Even if I drive to go pick him up from work for lunch, I will switch seats so he can drive to and from lunch.

I am starting ch 4 after skipping the questionnaire at the end of ch 3. I can’t recall one great sexual encounter in enough details to write it out, let alone three. Maybe my idea of good sex is a fantasy, but I don’t think so. It used to be great with us. A similar book written with a biblical fou...

A man of leisure or had only light work that did not involve travel, it was DAILY. Women were almost always the initiators of sex, and there are many court records from the first century where women were suing their husbands to live up to their contracted amount of sex, or to force them to change j...

Yes We do all three.... he guides, I guide, he slides.