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by SeekingChange
Sun Feb 05, 2023 6:39 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Sexual freedom
Replies: 7
Views: 341

Re: Sexual freedom

He said if life causes you to only be able to do 60% of what you used to be able to do, you can still do 100% of that 60%. I saw this concept on a meme, and it was actually very impactful for me, knowing where I have been and how I am in finding my "new normal", not knowing if I will ever...
by SeekingChange
Fri Feb 03, 2023 7:29 am
Forum: Orgasm & Sex Drive
Topic: Orgasms as stress relief...
Replies: 19
Views: 581

Re: Orgasms as stress relief...

I would guess the hormone release could help in theory... but where she is mentally might be more telling. If working for an orgasm raises stress levels (cortisol) could that negate the positive hormone release from an orgasm? Will certain stress levels actually make it where she wouldn't be able to...
by SeekingChange
Thu Feb 02, 2023 9:45 pm
Forum: Okay, Bad Idea, or Sin?
Topic: Dealing with crossdressing
Replies: 30
Views: 2600

Re: Dealing with crossdressing

so, we STILL aren't to murder, steal, commit adultery, etc. In our covenant, we have this, from Jesus Himself, "This is My commandment, that you love one another, just as I have loved you. " (Jn 15:12) Why do we new covenant believers feel we need the Law, when all we have to do is look a...
by SeekingChange
Thu Feb 02, 2023 6:31 pm
Forum: Okay, Bad Idea, or Sin?
Topic: Dealing with crossdressing
Replies: 30
Views: 2600

Re: Dealing with crossdressing

I haven't found the Bible verse that says that it is sin to share and enjoy a fantasy like this within the bounds of Biblical marriage. Deuteronomy 22:5 A woman must not wear men’s clothing, and a man must not wear women’s clothing, for whoever does these things is detestable to the LORD your God. ...
by SeekingChange
Thu Feb 02, 2023 6:19 pm
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 02/02/2023 - Where do you see yourselves in 5 years?
Replies: 16
Views: 380

Re: 02/02/2023 - Where do you see yourselves in 5 years?

Pretty much in the same place, doing much of the same thing.... likely with a few more "bonus kids" (in-laws), and I hope more grandkids!
by SeekingChange
Wed Feb 01, 2023 7:50 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 1/31/2023- Favorite/ Least Fave part of your wedding?
Replies: 22
Views: 541

Re: 1/31/2023- Favorite/ Least Fave part of your wedding?

GeorgeB wrote: Wed Feb 01, 2023 7:24 am Also, our friends decorated her car with silly string, which ruined the paint job
Ours was caused by shaving cream.
by SeekingChange
Wed Feb 01, 2023 6:52 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 1/31/2023- Favorite/ Least Fave part of your wedding?
Replies: 22
Views: 541

Re: 1/31/2023- Favorite/ Least Fave part of your wedding?

Our wedding had a lot of stresses, so much so, every time I go to a wedding I thank God it's not ours. My favorite part... him singing "If You Could See What I See" , as I entered and walked down the aisle. Least favorite... so many things to choose from.... I will go with the pickup being...
by SeekingChange
Wed Feb 01, 2023 6:40 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 02/01/2023 - Do you ever do "gratitude sex"?
Replies: 10
Views: 444

Re: 02/01/2023 - Do you ever do "gratitude sex"?

I have a hard time recalling any "gratitude sex". The closest I can think of is when I get overwhelmed with who he is to me and I am grateful for how he has loved me and has stayed by me.
by SeekingChange
Tue Jan 31, 2023 5:15 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 1/31/2023- Favorite/ Least Fave part of your wedding?
Replies: 22
Views: 541

1/31/2023- Favorite/ Least Fave part of your wedding?

What was your favorite part of your wedding/reception?

What was your least favorite part?
by SeekingChange
Mon Jan 30, 2023 1:44 pm
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 01/30/2023 - Biggest Difference
Replies: 12
Views: 656

Re: 01/30/2023 - Biggest Difference

The mental game.... it seems like in the media, it's about "feeling it" and the mood.... in my life, so much of it is around the mind, what choices I am going to make and focus.

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