I was going to mention the lube suggestion too, though I don't do that, unless I use my own. I can say I personally only like the lower settings, anything above 3 is too much and doesn't do it for me. I primarily use it for solo because I find it too bulky, or it doesn't keep the seal well in the po...

I would probably go hot tub. We visited a place that had a walk in shower, two heads, a bench.... the openess of it made it too breezy for me. I don't want to be chilled when showering.

seeking, I’m curious, what’s 1) your age, 2)number of years married, 48, married 29 years and 3) kid situation (how many and how many at homes? And how do, if they do, affect any of this at all? We have 4 kids....all are adults now (19-24), one married, 2 grands and another on the way!!!! We have 2...

For me, it was being willing to do it and staying committed to it, with the freedom to bypass if I knew I needed it...which is a very rare thing for me. But I do have a built in "rest day" and times. I actually requested a weekly rest day (an "off day"), which is Sundays for me, ...

Encouraged me to skip church.

I can't say this is for every man.... but my husband enjoys seeing my hands and feet fondling/playing with his parts. I keep my nails (fingers & toes) painted, and the various colors are always fun to see how they look with his penis as the backdrop.

We do both, it totally depends on our moods and the circumstances..... sometimes you just know you want a good meal, and you don't want to chance it with experimenting, and we want tried and true. One way we incorporate having new experiences together is looking for those hole-in-a-wall restaurants ...

Welcome! Glad you are here!

The stereotype does NOT fit me. I don't usually desire foreplay and don't usually need it.. Ever since my husband started having hormone issues, he required foreplay. And he's the one who desires it. Now, even though it's not "needed" for either of us, we do it more often than not, just be...

You're someone who I often remember and wonder about.... thank you for returning and sharing an update! Beloved Sister, continued blessings to you and your marriage.