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by SeekingChange
Fri Jul 19, 2024 12:52 pm
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 7/19/24 - What's a moment from your past that shaped who you are today?
Replies: 2
Views: 116

Re: 7/19/24 - What's a moment from your past that shaped who you are today?

There's so much good and bad that has shaped me, starting from infancy. There are a few things that I believe truly changed the trajectory of my life and who I am. Two of them were in some low valleys. I will choose the one that wasn't from a valley and a low, dark place. It was the day in April of ...
by SeekingChange
Fri Jul 19, 2024 12:37 pm
Forum: Sex for Boomers
Topic: Karezza Sex
Replies: 10
Views: 265

Re: Karezza Sex

At this stage in my life, something like that would actually produce some anxiety in me.
by SeekingChange
Thu Jul 18, 2024 3:18 pm
Forum: Intercourse (PIV) & Positions
Topic: Constriction After Restriction
Replies: 7
Views: 378

Re: Constriction After Restriction

Is she nearing menopausal age? I would think, and know, a change in hormones can change things with the vagina. This could be some of the "use it or lose it" at play.
by SeekingChange
Thu Jul 18, 2024 3:14 pm
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 07/17/2024 - What makes you feel the most emotionally connected to your spouse?
Replies: 8
Views: 372

Re: 07/17/2024 - What makes you feel the most emotionally connected to your spouse?

I feel the most emotionally connected when I am going through a harder time in life and feel the most emotionally vulnerable.....and then all it takes is his presence, and I long for the security of nearness and touch.... nothing grand.
by SeekingChange
Thu Jul 18, 2024 3:09 pm
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 07/18/2024 - Camp
Replies: 21
Views: 533

Re: 07/18/2024 - Camp

I read "going to camp" as going to church camp. I only went my last 3 years of high school. I loved the time with my friends/youth group. I was serious in my walk with Jesus in those years, so I enjoyed the spiritual retreat. "Going to camp" is completely different than "cam...
by SeekingChange
Tue Jul 16, 2024 5:14 pm
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Response to arousal
Replies: 6
Views: 418

Re: Response to arousal

Depends on what pants he is wearing...whether they are more restrictive or not, would determine the likelihood of noticing. If they're a lighter material, I would be more likely to notice.

My response would be, "What have you been doing?".... not in an accusatory way but out of curiosity.
by SeekingChange
Tue Jul 16, 2024 3:49 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 07/16/2024 - Laundry
Replies: 22
Views: 528

Re: 07/16/2024 - Laundry

I sort my clothes, but to my chagrin, the rest of my family, including the dils, are one loaders ... ugh. My husband had to convince me, and it took awhile, to have our kids start doing their own laundry when they were younger. I knew by doing so, more clothes would end up ruined or stained, because...
by SeekingChange
Tue Jul 16, 2024 3:19 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 07/16/2024 - Laundry
Replies: 22
Views: 528

07/16/2024 - Laundry

Do you sort your clothes or does everything get thrown into one load?

Who does the laundry in your house? Is it a shared responsibility?
by SeekingChange
Sun Jul 14, 2024 8:58 am
Forum: Other Non-sexual Marriage Issues
Topic: Defensiveness and how to handle it
Replies: 10
Views: 336

Re: Defensiveness and how to handle it

For some reason this came to mind when reading your post, it's a tactic taken from the book Love & Respect..... "That felt disrespectful, did I somehow come across as unloving?" (Or some version of that question.) That's a soft, but direct way to turn it and make her look at her own be...
by SeekingChange
Sat Jul 13, 2024 4:20 am
Forum: Activities & Items
Topic: Wild & Crazy Sexual Variety Score
Replies: 59
Views: 3561

Re: Wild & Crazy Sexual Variety Score

Maybe it's the use of the word "forced" orgasm but, it just feels icky to me. We're all different.... none being the only right way. The idea of it has been a desire of mine.... and [the idea of] "forced" has been something that pushes my buttons ever since I was a young teen.

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