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by SeekingChange
Mon May 17, 2021 11:28 am
Forum: The Science of Sex
Topic: All the Sex you could Possibly Want!
Replies: 21
Views: 388

Re: All the Sex you could Possibly Want!

SC, If I may ask......As the low drive spouse, How were you able to maintain that momentum for 5 years? You listed many positive outcomes during that time. Did those positive outcomes so outweigh the negative that you found it easier to keep that pace? Absolutely, you may ask! It's why I am here, a...
by SeekingChange
Mon May 17, 2021 11:14 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Generosity - Caught or Taught?
Replies: 6
Views: 107

Re: Generosity - Caught or Taught?

In general, I think it's both... it will be caught and it will be taught. -Can you * teach/ lead/ guide your spouse to be generous in ways that speak to you more? Yes, especially if they are teachable. But even if they aren't openly wanting to learn, there are ways to set boundaries that "teach...
by SeekingChange
Mon May 17, 2021 6:03 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 05/17/21 - Who is the better driver?
Replies: 12
Views: 149

Re: 05/17/21 - Who is the better driver?

I say me, overall. I am much more attentive, while he's a very distracted driver. He has scared many of passengers :lol: I have often wondered throughout our years if a car accident would be the death of him. But, if we are 4x4ing or mudding, definitely him! He almost always drives now, when we are ...
by SeekingChange
Sun May 16, 2021 10:19 pm
Forum: The Science of Sex
Topic: All the Sex you could Possibly Want!
Replies: 21
Views: 388

Re: All the Sex you could Possibly Want!

What would happen if the LD/gate keeper/refusing spouse gave the HD/ wanting spouse as much sex as they wanted? I did this, for about 5 years (2013-2018). The only time I asked "off" for during that time was my first two full days of my period, because of heavy flow. I was a "never s...
by SeekingChange
Sun May 16, 2021 5:19 pm
Forum: The Science of Sex
Topic: All the Sex you could Possibly Want!
Replies: 21
Views: 388

Re: All the Sex you could Possibly Want!

I/we have experience with this, so I really want to share. I will be back later when I get a chance.
by SeekingChange
Sun May 16, 2021 2:53 pm
Forum: On-Topic Chit-Chat
Topic: Saying Goodbye to Sex
Replies: 13
Views: 551

Re: Saying Goodbye to Sex

BTW, I just realized my user name doesn't reflect the fact that I am a DH, not a DW. But I don't think there is a way to change it. ::rofl Sorry about that. I sent you a PM about this, I, or another mod/admin, can change this if you would like, you just need to let us know if you would like a chang...
by SeekingChange
Fri May 14, 2021 4:29 pm
Forum: Introduce Yourself!
Topic: ThatGuy - hello
Replies: 5
Views: 134

Re: ThatGuy - hello

Welcome, glad you finally chose to introduce yourself! We would love to hear more from you!
by SeekingChange
Fri May 14, 2021 9:29 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 5/14/21 - what is the best thing about marriage
Replies: 24
Views: 553

Re: 5/14/21 - what is the best thing about marriage

Wow! This board has been beyond DEAD the last 2 days. Everyone on vacation, I guess. Vacation would be nice! But I am crazy busy with a house full of company for a graduation weekend. I can get on and read most things, but haven't had much time to give deep thought to anything, which the last two Q...
by SeekingChange
Thu May 13, 2021 7:58 pm
Forum: The Science of Sex
Topic: Gender spectrum
Replies: 10
Views: 350

Re: Gender spectrum

I started reading it and couldn't finish it, at this time, but I am wondering, did they address Genesis 5:2' "He created them male and female, and He blessed them and named them Man in the day when they were created." (NASB95)
by SeekingChange
Wed May 12, 2021 9:53 pm
Forum: On-Topic Chit-Chat
Topic: Yes, No, & Maybe
Replies: 9
Views: 384

Re: Yes, No, & Maybe

A) How many of you share posts from TMB that interest you with your spouse, if they are not a member? I would share topics and discussions, I didn't really ever read full threads to him. B) How open is your spouse to listening to a subject that piqued your interest? One probably can't tell from how...

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