I can only imagine the impact that discover had on you. Wow... Those feelings were valid, and understandable. I imagine most any husband would have reacted in his inner being in some uncontrollable way in that instance. There is nothing to be ashamed of there. Though nothing to that extent, I've rec...

"re-live" and "re-do" are two different things. I would love to re-do several decades. Re-live....not so much.

Valid points all. And can go both ways... We often fall in love with our grudges, as they make us feel better about ourselves, when in fact, they should feel like something we need to remove.

For the fully mature Christian (assuming there is such), this may not be a problem. But finding that balance is not so easy on the rest of us. To me, it basically comes down to one thing - unselfishness, or killing selfishness if you'd rather, and killing pride. Those two things (which it could be a...

As in most things in life, I see ditches on both sides of the road here. I don't think there are a majority of "black/white", "this or that" situations in real life. But the road is rather crowned in the center. We often too easily slide into one ditch or the other. It's work to ...

mwpastor wrote: ↑Sat Oct 07, 2023 5:52 am I think that much of what drives the bitterness and resentment isn't the desires, it's the expectations.

- which are just covert contracts doomed to fail.

Olaf was on the track to a reboot, but it takes more than two weeks. 90 days…. Two weeks is just the good start to a reboot. 90 days until you can really see clearly. You gotta do that to get your mind ready for the much deeper, harder work that NWNL talked about. Both are needed. But get them in or...

It used to be my spouse. That has changed dramatically in the last several months.

It’s still usually her, but the frequency of failed attempts are down drastically.

It’d be a meal I can’t really have anymore due to health issues , too much grease - country fried venison cube steak, mashed potatoes, sawmill gravy, green beans and biscuits.

KatieMarie wrote: ↑Wed Sep 27, 2023 3:48 pm I’m a wife. I have no idea what is big, or small, and you know what? It does not matter.

THIS ^^^^^^^^^^!!!!!!!!