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by LBD
Mon Nov 28, 2022 12:55 pm
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Why are so many wives unwilling to please their husbands?
Replies: 52
Views: 3579

Re: Why are so many wives unwilling to please their husbands?

I am very thankful for TMB and I think that the sooner you *tactfully* share with your wife about your activity here as well as your relationship-building intentions that help cast your activity in a positive light, then the smoother it will go. I would like to suggest that this is VERY subjective....
by LBD
Mon Nov 28, 2022 5:03 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: *sigh* School
Replies: 19
Views: 448

Re: *sign* School

All I can say is get it figured out now because Ph.D. will likely be worse. I do however find it hard to believe a master’s program is that demanding unless your major prof is a useless turd (I’ve known some of those.) Take control of your life now or it’ll get worse. My masters deal with a lot of ...
by LBD
Sun Nov 27, 2022 3:01 pm
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Why are so many wives unwilling to please their husbands?
Replies: 52
Views: 3579

Re: Why are so many wives unwilling to please their husbands?

I would suggest NOT having some long conversation about why, how, or what. Just do. Let your actions speak for themselves. They will mean so much more that way. They will bring about change long before a thousand words will at this point. Only when she sees a change and asks herself would I suggest ...
by LBD
Sun Nov 27, 2022 2:51 pm
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Where do I start?!
Replies: 27
Views: 1080

Re: Where do I start?!

I once read an article that explained it this way: How would you feel if your husband went days without talking to you? Probably emotionally abused, right? Well, that's how he feels about sex.. I’ve said this for many years. It’s the only reasonable comparison I’ve ever found. But even so, I’ve hea...
by LBD
Sun Nov 27, 2022 2:45 pm
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: *sigh* School
Replies: 19
Views: 448

Re: *sign* School

All I can say is get it figured out now because Ph.D. will likely be worse. I do however find it hard to believe a master’s program is that demanding unless your major prof is a useless turd (I’ve known some of those.) Take control of your life now or it’ll get worse.
by LBD
Sun Nov 27, 2022 6:35 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Light, semi light or dark
Replies: 15
Views: 343

Re: Light, semi light or dark

MY DW has struggled with this in some form our entire marriage. She still does now and then, but she has worked her way through it to where she will have completely nekkid sex in broad daylight or full light as long as she feels fairly secure. But it’s not always easy for her. So I don’t harp on it,...
by LBD
Sun Nov 27, 2022 6:29 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Why are so many wives unwilling to please their husbands?
Replies: 52
Views: 3579

Re: Why are so many wives unwilling to please their husbands?

K&M15, I found the same thing, and had the same realization. Sadly, the wives who need to really hear that message aren't typically involved here. You’re right, the chance of my wife being on here and being ok with it are about 2-3 percent. It’s just not something she would approve of because o...
by LBD
Sun Nov 27, 2022 6:10 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Where do I start?!
Replies: 27
Views: 1080

Re: Where do I start?!

First of all I'm sorry you and your wife are having this issue. I know you have been asked a lot of questions but I have a few more that may be of import. 1. When you do have sex does your wife orgasm? 2. Does she experience any pain during sex? 3. Does your wife feel emotionally connected to you d...
by LBD
Sun Nov 27, 2022 6:07 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Where do I start?!
Replies: 27
Views: 1080

Re: Where do I start?!

I once read an article that explained it this way: How would you feel if your husband went days without talking to you? Probably emotionally abused, right? Well, that's how he feels about sex.. I’ve said this for many years. It’s the only reasonable comparison I’ve ever found. But even so, I’ve hea...
by LBD
Sun Nov 27, 2022 5:40 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Unannounced Touching - Thoughts?
Replies: 17
Views: 635

Re: Unannounced Touching - Thoughts?

Flinching when someone sneaks up on you is just a normal human response. Let’s not overthink everything. I tend to agree. Some folks are more reactive than others. I’ve tried for years to jump-scare my wife and have only accomplished it once or twice :lol: As far as the post addresses, I’d rather t...

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