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by LBD
Tue Jan 17, 2023 12:38 pm
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Are we doing enough to prepare our young people for sexuality in marriage?
Replies: 11
Views: 568

Re: Are we doing enough to prepare our young people for sexuality in marriage?

In general - no. We teach primarily by modeling. If they don't see a model of a strong relationship, it won't matter what you tell them, or who says it.
by LBD
Fri Dec 23, 2022 10:46 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: "More demonic than lovemaking"
Replies: 22
Views: 1260

Re: "More demonic than lovemaking"

He is basically saying that lovemaking is demonic. What's next, that offspring resulting from lovemaking are demonic too? :twisted: While I disagree with the guy's words, I don't think he was saying lovemaking was demonic. He was making a comparison saying OS was demonic, or that it had more demoni...
by LBD
Sun Dec 18, 2022 5:44 am
Forum: Marriage Roles - Headship/Submission, Unsaved
Topic: How to become...
Replies: 31
Views: 1673

Re: How to become...

I'm gonna say it in case someone else hasn't already - they are probably thinking it... It's a cultural thing. You say were taught to be a "strong, independent black woman..." Why? Why would it be any different for a "black" woman over just a woman? Because statistics prove out t...
by LBD
Wed Dec 14, 2022 5:38 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 12/14/2022 - What percentage of the time does your spouse's orgasm cause your own?
Replies: 20
Views: 1560

Re: 12/14/2022 - What percentage of the time does your spouse's orgasm cause your own?

SLS wrote: Tue Dec 13, 2022 9:56 pm During sexual encounters when your spouse orgasms first what percentage of the time does that cause your own orgasm to commence?
99%
by LBD
Wed Dec 14, 2022 5:36 am
Forum: Introduce Yourself!
Topic: mountain_connection - New & Nervous
Replies: 10
Views: 890

Re: mountain_connection - New & Nervous

This forum has helped many, many people - including myself. Feel free to ask the "hard questions" here, say the hard things here. Vent. Rant. Cry. Be vulnerable. You may find things about yourself you didn't realize were there - and that's a good thing really. Growth begins where vulnerabi...
by LBD
Fri Dec 09, 2022 4:48 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: My wife believes my desires come from pornography
Replies: 12
Views: 1011

Re: My wife believes my desires come from pornography

It can argued that porn stole lots of loving sexual practices from good moral people, and not the other way around. I have often had a similar thought - I mean, someone had to be the first to think "hey, that would be cool to take a picture (or paint a picture) of folks doing..." - the fa...
by LBD
Fri Dec 09, 2022 4:38 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Scheduled Sex
Replies: 17
Views: 1339

Re: Scheduled Sex

These questions are for those on this forum that schedule and/or plan their sexual activity. How does the LD spouse get into the mood and not feel like it is just a transaction of some sort? When it is routine, it would seem to me that the LD spouse is just going through the motions and there is no...
by LBD
Wed Dec 07, 2022 12:45 pm
Forum: Other Non-sexual Marriage Issues
Topic: The one who loves more
Replies: 14
Views: 637

Re: The one who loves more

JLoydH wrote: Wed Dec 07, 2022 6:15 am CTim and LBD... good points all. Thanks.
Good to see you around again!
by LBD
Wed Dec 07, 2022 6:07 am
Forum: Other Non-sexual Marriage Issues
Topic: The one who loves more
Replies: 14
Views: 637

Re: The one who loves more

I believe, in general, women put more impetus and value on “relationship” than men do…in a broad, macro sense. However, relationship is what life is about and we men know that just as well. But for us, we are typically called upon to provide the background physical needs of life so that tends to tak...
by LBD
Fri Dec 02, 2022 5:09 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: What are your goals during lovemaking?
Replies: 36
Views: 2192

Re: What are your goals during lovemaking?

My personal goals have changed with time and hopefully maturity. Nowadays, my main goal is to enjoy the experience, which is not just physical, but emotional. Kind’ve a whole package deal. To go along with that, I am putting more effort into expressing my enjoyment for her sake and mine. Secondary t...

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