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by LBD
Sun May 22, 2022 5:57 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 5/20/22 - Would you rather make love in a pool of jello or spaghetti?
Replies: 25
Views: 449

Re: 5/20/22 - Would you rather make love in a pool of jello or spaghetti?

Jello - lime.

Sweet licked off the body is more pleasing than savory.
by LBD
Sat May 21, 2022 7:10 pm
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: How do you subtly indicate you're open or interested in sex tonight?
Replies: 10
Views: 489

Re: How do you subtly indicate you're open or interested in sex tonight?

I could much easier list all the subtle things that equal no sex.
by LBD
Tue May 17, 2022 4:35 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 05/17/2022 - The first thing you think of after waking?
Replies: 29
Views: 839

Re: 05/17/2022 - The first thing you think of after waking?

“Thank you Lord for another day!”

….followed very closely by “COFFEE!’
by LBD
Sun May 15, 2022 5:51 am
Forum: Lack of Desire
Topic: Responsive Desire
Replies: 7
Views: 449

Re: Responsive Desire

Some good practical ideas have been shared. Speaking as a husband who has struggled within a somewhat similar marriage dynamic for almost 30 years (at first, wife had some RD, but it has turned to LD to ND), I'll go a little deeper - the most crushing feeling that can/could arise from such a situati...
by LBD
Thu May 12, 2022 11:55 am
Forum: Okay, Bad Idea, or Sin?
Topic: DISCUSSION - Watching porn WITH your spouse
Replies: 57
Views: 2441

Re: DISCUSSION - Watching porn WITH your spouse

Pro 5:15-23  Drink water from your own cistern, flowing water from your own well.  (16)  Should your springs be scattered abroad, streams of water in the streets?  (17)  Let them be for yourself alone, and not for strangers with you.  (18)  Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice in the wife of y...
by LBD
Tue May 10, 2022 3:11 pm
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 05/10/2022 If you could visit a past decade, which one?
Replies: 32
Views: 767

Re: 05/10/2022 If you could visit a past decade, which one?

Texas, 1880's. Round-up on the King Ranch.
by LBD
Sun May 08, 2022 7:05 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Overcoming the gap
Replies: 37
Views: 1957

Re: Overcoming the gap

The problem is, they're so focused on just surviving to the next day/hour/minute that they can forget tools they have that can help them get by. It takes having a list nearby of helpful strategies, or a caregiver reminding them how they can get through it. WHAT? You mean someone can actually have c...
by LBD
Wed May 04, 2022 11:22 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Deep Thoughts by LBD - "Leaders eat leftovers."
Replies: 8
Views: 528

Re: Deep Thoughts by LBD - "Leaders eat leftovers."

While this may be true, at times (I don't agree that leaders ALWAYS eat the leftovers), leaders ALSO provide the meal itself. yep, that's what I said as well - though this analogy is not a direct parallel with sex itself, certainly not always. In some ways this could be morphed into the "she c...
by LBD
Mon May 02, 2022 8:55 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Overcoming the gap
Replies: 37
Views: 1957

Re: Overcoming the gap

HOWEVER, that's what you suggest when you share that with an abused person who's doing/done all they can in their marriage. Absurd. So now I'm a heretic AND Jpops is an abuser.... Come on man! That's a bridge to far.. Jpops - my advice is to study, pray, do both with your wife, and have faith that ...
by LBD
Sun May 01, 2022 2:49 pm
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Deep Thoughts by LBD - "Leaders eat leftovers."
Replies: 8
Views: 528

Re: Deep Thoughts by LBD - "Leaders eat leftovers."

I dont quite understand the first couple of sentences. No one has stated that humble leaders are weak and pushovers. It sounds like you are trying to convince yourself of that. Nothing to misunderstand. Just further thoughts. I know that it’s true, but my earlier thoughts may have sounded like I wa...

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