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by LBD
Wed Feb 28, 2024 12:42 pm
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: obligation/duty sex-- helpful or not?
Replies: 85
Views: 2846

Re: obligation/duty sex-- helpful or not?

That's one interpretation but I don't believe it's the correct one . As I've stated in the past couple days here, this section of Scripture has led to the use and abuse of it by husbands and pastors over the years. How else could it be interpreted? My body is not mine, hers is not hers. "Due b...
by LBD
Tue Feb 27, 2024 9:48 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: obligation/duty sex-- helpful or not?
Replies: 85
Views: 2846

Re: obligation/duty sex-- helpful or not?

Maybe my laundry comment missed the mark.... I have not read every post in this thread, nor do I want to. But I've read enough to see the base conflict. I think the biggest issue is a definition of terms. What is "duty sex" and what cause someone to characterize it as such, and further wha...
by LBD
Mon Feb 26, 2024 7:09 pm
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: obligation/duty sex-- helpful or not?
Replies: 85
Views: 2846

Re: obligation/duty sex-- helpful or not?

Why don’t we talk about “duty laundry”….
by LBD
Mon Feb 26, 2024 10:17 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 02/26/2024 - The Slap
Replies: 20
Views: 958

Re: 02/26/2024 - The Slap

quite often... but I wouldn't call it a slap exactly. more like a spirited pat :) ...and the occasional squeeze for good measure.
by LBD
Mon Feb 26, 2024 10:15 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: obligation/duty sex-- helpful or not?
Replies: 85
Views: 2846

Re: obligation/duty sex-- helpful or not?

I’ve been on all sides of this at one time or another. It all comes down to attitude. Attitude of BOTH spouses in the equation. As I read this, since you have been on “all sides of this issue”, then you have would been the spouse who would manipulate and whine and mope until your spouse gave you se...
by LBD
Sat Feb 24, 2024 6:57 pm
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: obligation/duty sex-- helpful or not?
Replies: 85
Views: 2846

Re: obligation/duty sex-- helpful or not?

I’ve been on all sides of this at one time or another. It all comes down to attitude. Attitude of BOTH spouses in the equation. You can give duty sex with a great attitude or a ### one. You can receive duty sex with a great attitude or a ### one. I quarantee that if both sides of this equation works...
by LBD
Thu Feb 22, 2024 5:06 pm
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Initiation procedures
Replies: 21
Views: 2095

Re: Initiation procedures

1. "I didn't respond in the moment but filed it away." What would have happened if instead of leaving it as an offhand comment and filing it away for a sneak attack later you brought that right to the surface in the moment. "oh really---that sounds fun... be ready... I'm going to try...
by LBD
Thu Feb 22, 2024 4:50 pm
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 02/20/2024 - Have you struggled turning a certain age?
Replies: 21
Views: 713

Re: 02/20/2024 - Have you struggled turning a certain age?

53 was a ###! Spent in the ER. Still trying to recover emotionally.
by LBD
Thu Feb 08, 2024 6:47 am
Forum: The Theology of Sex
Topic: Remarriage and adultery
Replies: 63
Views: 3500

Re: Remarriage and adultery

I've done all I can here. We are going in circles. @Redspastor, listen to your conscience. If it doesn't seem right to you, don't do it. I know exactly from where you come and derive your positions. The problem is by doing so, you align yourself with the scribes and Pharisees, and put more weight t...
by LBD
Thu Feb 08, 2024 6:26 am
Forum: The Theology of Sex
Topic: Remarriage and adultery
Replies: 63
Views: 3500

Re: Remarriage and adultery

If either spouse has had sex since they divorced, then biblically that was adultery. And adultery breaks the covenant, ending the marriage. Disagree. The marriage was already ended, the covenant broken (adulterated). Someone did something (or nothing). The covenant was broken when they split. Doesn...

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