In general - no. We teach primarily by modeling. If they don't see a model of a strong relationship, it won't matter what you tell them, or who says it.

He is basically saying that lovemaking is demonic. What's next, that offspring resulting from lovemaking are demonic too? :twisted: While I disagree with the guy's words, I don't think he was saying lovemaking was demonic. He was making a comparison saying OS was demonic, or that it had more demoni...

I'm gonna say it in case someone else hasn't already - they are probably thinking it... It's a cultural thing. You say were taught to be a "strong, independent black woman..." Why? Why would it be any different for a "black" woman over just a woman? Because statistics prove out t...

SLS wrote: ↑Tue Dec 13, 2022 9:56 pm During sexual encounters when your spouse orgasms first what percentage of the time does that cause your own orgasm to commence?

99%

This forum has helped many, many people - including myself. Feel free to ask the "hard questions" here, say the hard things here. Vent. Rant. Cry. Be vulnerable. You may find things about yourself you didn't realize were there - and that's a good thing really. Growth begins where vulnerabi...

It can argued that porn stole lots of loving sexual practices from good moral people, and not the other way around. I have often had a similar thought - I mean, someone had to be the first to think "hey, that would be cool to take a picture (or paint a picture) of folks doing..." - the fa...

These questions are for those on this forum that schedule and/or plan their sexual activity. How does the LD spouse get into the mood and not feel like it is just a transaction of some sort? When it is routine, it would seem to me that the LD spouse is just going through the motions and there is no...

JLoydH wrote: ↑Wed Dec 07, 2022 6:15 am CTim and LBD... good points all. Thanks.

Good to see you around again!

I believe, in general, women put more impetus and value on “relationship” than men do…in a broad, macro sense. However, relationship is what life is about and we men know that just as well. But for us, we are typically called upon to provide the background physical needs of life so that tends to tak...

My personal goals have changed with time and hopefully maturity. Nowadays, my main goal is to enjoy the experience, which is not just physical, but emotional. Kind’ve a whole package deal. To go along with that, I am putting more effort into expressing my enjoyment for her sake and mine. Secondary t...