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by LBD
Thu Oct 21, 2021 6:51 pm
Forum: Okay, Bad Idea, or Sin?
Topic: Erotica, but taken to the next level
Replies: 18
Views: 500

Re: Erotica, but taken to the next level

iwmsgan wrote: Thu Oct 21, 2021 3:38 pm Could you humor me and share where this line was drawn?
No, it’s better if you go back to look.
by LBD
Thu Oct 21, 2021 5:26 am
Forum: The Theology of Sex
Topic: Theology, attitude, or both? - some thoughts.
Replies: 7
Views: 187

Re: Theology, attitude, or both? - some thoughts.

Keeping this in the bedroom, this discussion seems to be moving in the direction of outright refusal or severe gatekeeping. I am not struggling with neither now, though I know many do. I don’t think making a whip would have been productive when I was. Even a metaphorical whip was advised against. In...
by LBD
Wed Oct 20, 2021 1:50 pm
Forum: The Theology of Sex
Topic: Theology, attitude, or both? - some thoughts.
Replies: 7
Views: 187

Re: Theology, attitude, or both? - some thoughts.

Forgiveness doesn't mean you have to keep putting yourself in the same situation without changing some dynamics, right? .... None of those actions point to unforgiveness. Been letting this steep for a bit. I don't disagree with the ideas put forward here, nor do I wholeheartedly agree in principle....
by LBD
Wed Oct 20, 2021 1:19 pm
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 10/20/2021 - What word do you prefer to use to describe the "action" of intercourse?
Replies: 14
Views: 513

Re: 10/20/2021 - What word do you prefer to use to describe the "action" of intercourse?

in order of usage: Have sex, "F&^%", "screw", "poke", "some time together"
by LBD
Wed Oct 20, 2021 1:14 pm
Forum: On-Topic Chit-Chat
Topic: Maintaining a sex life with teens in the house.
Replies: 8
Views: 188

Re: Maintaining a sex life with teens in the house.

Door locks - and I "acquired" a hotel DO NOT DISTURB door knob hang sign. Showed it to them with a simple - "follow the instructions unless there is an emergency that requires firetrucks or ambulances."
by LBD
Tue Oct 19, 2021 7:20 pm
Forum: Okay, Bad Idea, or Sin?
Topic: Erotica, but taken to the next level
Replies: 18
Views: 500

Re: Erotica, but taken to the next level

What do you mean by 'outside your marriage' though? That's the crux of the conversation. I think we all agree bringing another person in is a sin. With technology going where it's going where do we draw the line? We’ve told you where we’d draw the line and why, and where we think God stands….but yo...
by LBD
Tue Oct 19, 2021 2:19 pm
Forum: The Theology of Sex
Topic: Theology, attitude, or both? - some thoughts.
Replies: 7
Views: 187

Re: Theology, attitude, or both? - some thoughts.

I disagree .... Turns out we don't disagree :D But I could have phrased it "let it go" and been quicker to the point. ;) Most certainly Mat 6:14-15 applies. "For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgi...
by LBD
Tue Oct 19, 2021 12:35 pm
Forum: The Theology of Sex
Topic: Theology, attitude, or both? - some thoughts.
Replies: 7
Views: 187

Theology, attitude, or both? - some thoughts.

1Co 13:4-5  Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant  (5)  or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; (original Greek translates does not count up wrongdoing ) I heard someone quote the last part of this verse on the radio this mor...
by LBD
Tue Oct 19, 2021 8:55 am
Forum: Okay, Bad Idea, or Sin?
Topic: Erotica, but taken to the next level
Replies: 18
Views: 500

Re: Erotica, but taken to the next level

Not sure how to answer - except that it is now prevalent in Japan that many young men do not even seek male/female - human to human connection because of a similar computer generated erotic app game. I can't see how it is at all relationally healthy or Kingdom glorifying. If it is your relationship ...
by LBD
Tue Oct 19, 2021 8:43 am
Forum: The Science of Sex
Topic: What turns you on?
Replies: 10
Views: 386

Re: What turns you on?

Knowing how important my O is too him can have a negative impact. First - Don't sell yourself short. You deserve credit! (I'm not NWNL btw ;) ) We too have experienced the above phenomenon. I have sorta figured out when my DW won't O. At least I can sorta note the negatives that will likely keep he...

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