… She is wondering if she is doing enough to keep me off her back. I'm wondering if she wants to be there at all and if I can I somehow make this a good enough experience for her to actually want to do it again..... ^^^Nailed it once again. Man, you’re on point! I appreciate all your thoughts given...

yeah...as I figured. I'm a 44% C , 42% A . D and I came in at single digits. IF I had to guess, because she has taken these kinda things before, my wife would be primarily a D , maybe even over 50% so, A would be a close second, then I . For her, C would be last. She likes to think of herself as a r...

No answers for you here - just a few points for you to ponder. Just points about 'what makes her tick', maybe??? - probably. She wants to be the boss everywhere for sure. Perhaps therein is where I have made the biggest mistake - too often letting her - which just adds to her pressure and stress. B...

T-M-B, I seems by your profile, you are still single. Is that the case? If so, then I would propose you really don't understand deep conflict yet. :) at least not in the way marriage can bring it out. The crucible affect of a marriage can be a forge like no other. However, I do agree, for conflict t...

As he tells the story, the guy must have been a bit slow, because Dr. Kevin has to lay it out for him. "You could wear the same clothes and shoes every day, but your DW likes variety - why else does she have a closet full of shoes and clothing?" I have a slightly different take on this an...

I thought I might give a little update to my current situation and how our vacay went after the proclamation of "no fights" was made. We didn't fight. I kept my end of the bargain and never once mentioned sex or even alluded to it in any way. She did initiate all on her own twice, which I ...

On one hand, there are too many things to list if I think about all the little things people do for each other, like wash clothes, dishes, etc. We both do those things. On the other hand, it's hard to name anything consistent that she does specifically for me for the express reason of showing me lov...

…but, there is a difference, and it’s a huge one. You could have immediately gone again if you so chose. I understand your “one and done” thing, but that only refers to orgasm, not participation. And if participation is possible, then O is too… even if not probable. I am not even sure what to say t...

I'm going to go out on a limb here and say there's no resolution until the low drive spouse opens their minds and hearts to understanding the importance of sex and intimacy to their spouse and wants to change. Communication is great for pouring out your heart and letting your frustrations known but...

…but, there is a difference, and it’s a huge one. You could have immediately gone again if you so chose. I understand your “one and done” thing, but that only refers to orgasm, not participation. And if participation is possible, then O is too… even if not probable. For many men, that quick O is oft...