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by LBD
Wed Aug 04, 2021 5:56 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 7/9/21 - are you an active couch potato or “mover & shaker”?
Replies: 14
Views: 624

Re: 7/9/21 - are you an active couch potato or “mover & shaker”?

I'm always amazed at how the majority of marriages is comprised of two opposites in so many ways. This is one of them for us. I almost always have to be doing something. Just sitting still bothers me. I am figgity, I admit that. But I also have a need to feel like I am accomplishing something. I rem...
by LBD
Wed Aug 04, 2021 5:36 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: New Update-Yay! , but very Humble
Replies: 7
Views: 369

Re: New Update-Yay! , but very Humble

Victory in Battle, but im in it for a Victory for the war. I know the sentiment, but may I suggest a change in terms? I do so because the words we use to describe things actually has impact on how we view them and handle them. It's not a battle or a war. It is a relationship with ebb and flow, comp...
by LBD
Wed Aug 04, 2021 5:25 am
Forum: Orgasm & Sex Drive
Topic: Cock Rings
Replies: 79
Views: 9236

Re: Cock Rings

Have had success with a simple silicone type CR. Have two sizes, one that gives a little "help", and a slightly smaller one that puts quite a squeeze on but does strengthen erection. DW can tell the difference, especially in certain positions. In some WOT positions, it is too much for her,...
by LBD
Wed Aug 04, 2021 5:06 am
Forum: Other Non-sexual Marriage Issues
Topic: First flight from the greater "nest" hitting hard
Replies: 7
Views: 199

Re: First flight from the greater "nest" hitting hard

It has always been a goal and an understanding that our children are not "ours", they are their own souls that we get to shape for a little while. That is an enormous responsibility and the impact is indelible. I had experience with this from the negative side in a profound way. My wife ha...
by LBD
Wed Aug 04, 2021 4:22 am
Forum: The Theology of Sex
Topic: Who is in your love nest
Replies: 14
Views: 1208

Re: Who is in your love nest

…So I ask, who is in your love nest? -Me saying, “you blew it, you can’t ask now” -Me saying, “Tell her you want to moron. She doesn’t know if you won’t tell her”. -Me saying, “She’s tired, don’t bother her” -Corey Allan saying, “Man up and own your desires and feelings” -All sorts of memories made...
by LBD
Mon Aug 02, 2021 12:05 pm
Forum: Lack of Desire
Topic: Lack of any sexual activity after cancer
Replies: 18
Views: 1431

Re: Lack of any sexual activity after cancer

God bless you friend! Yours is a tough situation. I can never know (and pray I nor anyone does) the full extent of your pain and anxiety. However, I have some inklings. My DW had a breast tumor as well. Turned out to be benign, but that was not the original diagnosis. We only got that after lumpecto...
by LBD
Mon Aug 02, 2021 11:29 am
Forum: Okay, Bad Idea, or Sin?
Topic: Racey TV
Replies: 5
Views: 815

Re: Racey TV

Some of the best sex we've ever had was after we watched "How to lose a guy in 10 days". I think it was Matt McM that flipped her switch. Nothing approaching overtly sexual in there that I remember. I think for many women, just something that gets the romantic juices stirring is a good thi...
by LBD
Mon Aug 02, 2021 11:25 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 07/22/2021 - If you and your spouse were trapped on a deserted island....
Replies: 8
Views: 495

Re: 07/22/2021 - If you and your spouse were trapped on a deserted island....

A largish machete type tool - probably along the lines of the Tracker.

I would need a 55 gal drum of sunscreen, my wife a couple drums of bug repellent.
by LBD
Mon Aug 02, 2021 11:18 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 07/21/2021 - Do you celebrate birthdays with sex?
Replies: 21
Views: 1006

Re: 07/21/2021 - Do you celebrate birthdays with sex?

I would celebrate Thursday with sex....

Or Monday...any day ending in "y" :)
by LBD
Mon Aug 02, 2021 11:11 am
Forum: Hands On
Topic: Do you have to be hornier for a handjob than for PIV?
Replies: 20
Views: 2427

Re: Do you have to be hornier for a handjob than for PIV?

I've had fewer than 10 HJ's to completion by the DW in our almost 30 years together. The last just two days ago. We have this thing we call the "pink glove" that she has used a few times but not in years. Rubber catchers mitt looking thing with long "fuzzies" all over it. When lu...

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