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by LBD
Mon Apr 15, 2024 11:33 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: What is masculinity?
Replies: 41
Views: 1219

Re: What is masculinity?

Tractor wrote: Sun Apr 14, 2024 1:57 pm He did not use force when He was on this earth.
...unless you want to call using a whip and kicking over tables "force"....
by LBD
Mon Apr 08, 2024 5:45 pm
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 4/5/24 - Would you rather have an intelligent partner or a good-looking partner?
Replies: 29
Views: 952

Re: 4/5/24 - Would you rather have an intelligent partner or a good-looking partner?

In the words of the famous philosopher Ron White - “You can fix a nose, or fix boobs…but you can’t fix stupid.”

…..it’s a joke…. :lol:
by LBD
Mon Apr 08, 2024 5:42 pm
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: What is masculinity?
Replies: 41
Views: 1219

Re: What is masculinity?

I don’t know why modern culture wants to make this so complicated and convoluted. ..or maybe I do…
by LBD
Mon Apr 08, 2024 5:39 pm
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 04/08/2024 - Internal Finish Requirement
Replies: 28
Views: 1593

Re: 04/08/2024 - Internal Finish Requirement

I too agree “require” is a strong word, but I’d say it’s a 9 in our house. Anything but that is not ideal.
by LBD
Thu Apr 04, 2024 11:46 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 04/02/2024 - Would you have more sex if....?
Replies: 22
Views: 1258

Re: 04/02/2024 - Would you have more sex if....?

To some small extent, probably so. Just because sometimes we may both get embroiled in story or whatever and let time pass by. But it's really a matter of intention and attention. She is definitely the one most distracted by electronic things at most times. I used to let her focus on it persuade me ...
by LBD
Thu Apr 04, 2024 11:40 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Spin off- QOTD- foreplay
Replies: 34
Views: 3397

Re: Spin off- QOTD- foreplay

I would say responsiveness from the wife is a kind of "foreplay" for me. If things are happening that indicate her engagement - mentally and physically - then that ramps me up. On the opposite side, disinterest is a total buzzkill. I used to put up with that and "power through", ...
by LBD
Thu Apr 04, 2024 10:56 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 4/4/2024 - would you rather...
Replies: 26
Views: 1311

Re: 4/4/2024 - would you rather...

I did walk in on my parents - a couple times. One was in broad daylight in an.....illicit position out in the open..... No question what was going on there. :oops: I was marked for life :lol:
by LBD
Fri Mar 29, 2024 9:36 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 3/29/24 - How many times would you like to have sex in an ideal week?
Replies: 37
Views: 1915

Re: 3/29/24 - How many times would you like to have sex in an ideal week?

Not sure what an "ideal week" would be, so it's somewhat a moving target. I'd say 2-4 times.
by LBD
Wed Mar 27, 2024 4:34 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Initiating for wives - advice, thoughts, etc.
Replies: 19
Views: 1002

Re: Initiating for wives - advice, thoughts, etc.

I've tried to explain that if I don't initiate, it doesn't mean I'm not attracted to him or want to avoid sex. I've tried to explain that for some reason something doesn't click in my mind to initiate as much as he does. He cannot understand this the same way you do. No more than you can probably u...
by LBD
Fri Mar 22, 2024 4:01 am
Forum: Activities & Items
Topic: Best small unit?
Replies: 6
Views: 577

Re: Best small unit?

There are a lot of options out there, and a good place to start would be Married Dance’s bullet vibrator or clitorid cuddler selection. For us, my wife prefers moderately broad stimulation, so we’ve settled on the We-Vibe Touch (now Touch X): https://marrieddance.com/shop/vibrators/clitoris-cuddler...

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