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by newwifenewlife
Wed Feb 24, 2021 10:50 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Hearing attraction/sexual struggles
Replies: 32
Views: 812

Re: Hearing attraction/sexual struggles

That said I have mostly got that going in some places. The process is painfully slow, and for me, it takes some concentrated effort. It progresses like this: At first, I get upset, say or do something based on that, and feel justified. Then I get upset, and hours (or more) later I realise I was wro...
by newwifenewlife
Wed Feb 24, 2021 10:45 am
Forum: Activities & Items
Topic: Rabbit Vibes - Recommendations?
Replies: 2
Views: 87

Re: Rabbit Vibes - Recommendations?

"Pinky" does wonders for DW. It's the Jelly Eager Beaver (rotating dual-action vibe) at marrieddance.com. It wasn't a lot to spend for DW to try her first major insertable toy and the "results" have been WAY more than just "satisfying"! :lol: ::praise
by newwifenewlife
Wed Feb 24, 2021 10:39 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: When does your "foreplay" or pursuit begin?
Replies: 12
Views: 250

Re: When does your

Many of us men do exactly what you ladies indicated you need but it seems to do little to affect the outcome we long for. It seems as you say, we can do everything right and some outside force kills it and we can become hardened to trying anymore. I don't know if women really understand how hurtful...
by newwifenewlife
Wed Feb 24, 2021 9:25 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: When does your "foreplay" or pursuit begin?
Replies: 12
Views: 250

Re: When does your "foreplay" or pursuit begin?

@NWNL's coffee story caused my heart rate to tick up a bit even before I read his wife's reaction, because I knew what her reaction was going to be. I did too. :lol: DW needed to get up and start studying for a MAJOR test tomorrow in an extremely difficult class...but I just couldn't resist the ask...
by newwifenewlife
Wed Feb 24, 2021 6:10 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: When does your "foreplay" or pursuit begin?
Replies: 12
Views: 250

When does your "foreplay" or pursuit begin?

I heard the following quotes this morning: "Foreplay begins when the orgasm ends" and "the body goes where the brain tells it". So it seems to lead then to the following questions: Am I pursuing my wife because I love her and not just for sex? Am I being more intentional about my...
by newwifenewlife
Wed Feb 24, 2021 5:49 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 02/24/2021 - Who has the better bedside manner?
Replies: 11
Views: 274

Re: 02/24/2021 - Who has the better bedside manner?

Dear wife is much more empathetic, kind and generous...just some of the great reasons I married her.
by newwifenewlife
Tue Feb 23, 2021 10:53 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Hearing attraction/sexual struggles
Replies: 32
Views: 812

Re: Hearing attraction/sexual struggles

In all secret things, confession is the key to bring "darkness" (the attraction) out into the "light" (no longer secret). The question seems to me then, to whom should the confession be made? That is the question asked, should it be the spouse? Or another? I've fallen on the &quo...
by newwifenewlife
Tue Feb 23, 2021 8:43 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 02/23/21 - What shows are you into?
Replies: 21
Views: 488

Re: 02/23/21 - What shows are you into?

Chicago PD...BLUE BLOODS...SWAT...FBI...LAW & ORDER (original was best but I like them all)...NCIS (Los Angeles)...HAWAII FIVE-0 In case you haven't gotten the theme :lol: , I've liked cop & courtroom shows since I was a kid. I used to watch the following shows and more with my dad and it's ...
by newwifenewlife
Mon Feb 22, 2021 10:38 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 02/19/21 - Best & worst thing about marriage...
Replies: 22
Views: 718

Re: 02/19/21 - Best & worst thing about marriage...

The worst part of marriage is not being able to do whatever you want, which is not necessarily a bad thing. Truth there...although I do miss my TV & junk basket in the dining room, weight bench & exercise bike in the living room and family room. On the other hand, I now enjoy another kind o...
by newwifenewlife
Mon Feb 22, 2021 4:56 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 02/22/21 - First Sex-Positive Online Christian Source
Replies: 23
Views: 737

Re: 02/22/21 - First Sex-Positive Online Christian Source

That was a long time ago (16+ yrs ago)...in a different life...with a different life. Am I really supposed to remember that? :lol:

The only one that I can remember finding first was TMB back in Summer/Fall of 2004.

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