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by newwifenewlife
Sun Sep 26, 2021 9:44 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: ...but what if they don't respond...???
Replies: 8
Views: 131

Re: ...but what if they don't respond...???

I don't use the term, nor have I studied "outcome indifference", so how is this different than setting boundaries? Because when I read things you wrote, including the quoted part, I just see what I understand "boundaries" to be. I would respond, "Yes...and no". Boundar...
by newwifenewlife
Sun Sep 26, 2021 9:36 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: ...but what if they don't respond...???
Replies: 8
Views: 131

Re: ...but what if they don't respond...???

"yeah, outcome indifference sounds good....but what if they don't respond positively?" ... I recently made a post retelling of a situation between my DW and I, and asked the question when does outcome indifference morph into causing further apathy in the opposite spouse. It was a post ori...
by newwifenewlife
Sun Sep 26, 2021 2:29 am
Forum: Oral Sex
Topic: Most comfortable oral sex position
Replies: 11
Views: 1250

Re: Most comfortable oral sex position

Horseman1978 wrote: Sat Sep 25, 2021 2:42 pm I'm curious whether anyone has suggestions for oral sex positions that allow me to go down on DW without craning my neck!
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Liberator pillows will prop her butt up and save your neck. Liberator furniture or any “yoga” chair is great for what you’re desiring as well.
by newwifenewlife
Sat Sep 25, 2021 4:53 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Is sex a priority over all?
Replies: 24
Views: 933

Re: Is sex a priority over all?

As per your request NWNL A post was made and provided here and now removed 20 Sept 2021. Just to be clear, Tracker, I wasn't asking you to post and then delete it. It doesn't seem fair to the community and discussion to come in and disagree without coherent explanation or support and/or then come b...
by newwifenewlife
Sat Sep 25, 2021 3:28 am
Forum: Other Sexual Changes, Challenges Difficulties
Topic: What Effects Have You Seen from "Purity Culture"?
Replies: 32
Views: 2504

Re: What Effects Have You Seen from

….Could it be more around the vein of churches people are from? Yes, I believe there’s a lot of truth there. With all the “kerfuffle” (to quote a member here about an unmentionable book on TMB) I listened to TMB’s unmentionable book and another book highly criticized in the unmentionable book on ba...
by newwifenewlife
Sat Sep 25, 2021 2:46 am
Forum: Introduce Yourself!
Topic: God's Geek Still
Replies: 6
Views: 115

Re: God's Geek Still

Welcome, glad you’re back. ::praise
by newwifenewlife
Fri Sep 24, 2021 6:03 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 9/24/2021 - do you have a couple’s bucket list?
Replies: 12
Views: 343

Re: 9/24 - do you have a couple’s bucket list?

Because DW & I have both heard of couples who never do there dream trips or experience things together due to health, death or other issues, we decided we don't want that to happen to us. We also have a significant age difference which will also impact our retirement ages so DW & I have deci...
by newwifenewlife
Fri Sep 24, 2021 5:31 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 9/24/2021 - do you have a couple’s bucket list?
Replies: 12
Views: 343

Re: 9/24 - do you have a couple’s bucket list?

... I do actually have a Pinterest board devoted to those planning details, if that counts? ;) :lol: It works for me... literally! I started keeping PINTEREST pins for multiple states with things to do or places to stay. This way have cool ideas right from the start and can plan some vacation ideas...
by newwifenewlife
Fri Sep 24, 2021 1:24 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 9/24/2021 - do you have a couple’s bucket list?
Replies: 12
Views: 343

9/24/2021 - do you have a couple’s bucket list?

In the Pixar movie UP, Carl & his wife Ellie have a dream of moving their “clubhouse” to Paradise Falls in South America. Life happens, they grow old together, and (spoiler alert) Ellie dies without realizing their dream together. So Carl in his old age sets out to honor Ellie and their dream to...

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