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by newwifenewlife
Thu Oct 21, 2021 4:47 pm
Forum: Okay, Bad Idea, or Sin?
Topic: Erotica, but taken to the next level
Replies: 18
Views: 496

Re: Erotica, but taken to the next level

…., but you previously called me a liar about my marriage being 'good' and now you're saying I'm twisting your words and such. … Let me say that I am sorry it was taken that way. It was not my intention nor did I ever say you lied about your marriage. I did point out that your behavior and pursuit ...
by newwifenewlife
Thu Oct 21, 2021 5:35 am
Forum: Orgasm & Sex Drive
Topic: Why do I crave sex or to be intimate?
Replies: 10
Views: 252

Re: Why do I crave sex or to be intimate?

...On the days when PIV sex is not on the menu but I am feeling the need for sex play, we will 'naked' cuddle in bed or maybe the shower. This is not as good as PIV sex, but it does satisfy my need for physical connection with DW. ... Olorin brings up a great point about sexual connection without t...
by newwifenewlife
Wed Oct 20, 2021 6:48 pm
Forum: The Theology of Sex
Topic: Theology, attitude, or both? - some thoughts.
Replies: 7
Views: 186

Re: Theology, attitude, or both? - some thoughts.

It also doesn't say to stand there and continue to let them beat you. By Jesus' example, more than once He got away when the religious leaders were after Him. He also did some straight up calling out on certain attitudes. He made a whip and turned tables. I think it's safe to say there's a time for...
by newwifenewlife
Wed Oct 20, 2021 2:15 pm
Forum: Orgasm & Sex Drive
Topic: Why do I crave sex or to be intimate?
Replies: 10
Views: 252

Re: Why do I crave sex or to be intimate?

So a couple different things come to mind: first, I commend you in regards to your actions to quit porn. Honestly, though you won't know how much the porn is impacting your drive AND your attitude about initiation and emotional attachment until you're done and not going back to porn because of what ...
by newwifenewlife
Wed Oct 20, 2021 8:47 am
Forum: On-Topic Chit-Chat
Topic: Maintaining a sex life with teens in the house.
Replies: 8
Views: 186

Re: Maintaining a sex life with teens in the house.

1) Get a fan. It might not cover your "noise" but it just might help you not hear them . 2) Pay them to go away. 3) Teach them to knock first...BUT if you don't or they don't wait for a response and enter, I guarantee you, they'll never make that mistake again. 4) If they hear noises, so w...
by newwifenewlife
Wed Oct 20, 2021 6:32 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 10/20/2021 - What word do you prefer to use to describe the "action" of intercourse?
Replies: 14
Views: 509

Re: 10/20/2021 - What word do you prefer to use to describe the "action" of intercourse?

It honestly depends on the feeling, emotions, position or speed. The last two can also be impacted by feelings and emotions at the time.
by newwifenewlife
Wed Oct 20, 2021 3:49 am
Forum: Okay, Bad Idea, or Sin?
Topic: Erotica, but taken to the next level
Replies: 18
Views: 496

Re: Erotica, but taken to the next level

The question you pose is one Christians have been and will have to continue to wrestle with as technological creep continues into our lives and households so it is ok to ask. I believe it is a question of boundaries and morality. You have twisted my words, ignored the points of others and myself in ...
by newwifenewlife
Tue Oct 19, 2021 5:52 pm
Forum: Okay, Bad Idea, or Sin?
Topic: Erotica, but taken to the next level
Replies: 18
Views: 496

Re: Erotica, but taken to the next level

Masturbation with permission from your spouse, and certainly in the presence of your spouse to help relieve pressure and desire is not the same as looking outside your marriage for sexual stimulation and gratification. You can say you have a good marriage with your spouse but the fact that you are p...
by newwifenewlife
Tue Oct 19, 2021 1:22 pm
Forum: The Theology of Sex
Topic: Theology, attitude, or both? - some thoughts.
Replies: 7
Views: 186

Re: Theology, attitude, or both? - some thoughts.

1Co 13:4-5  Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant  (5)  or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; (original Greek translates does not count up wrongdoing ) I heard someone quote the last part of this verse on the radio this mor...
by newwifenewlife
Tue Oct 19, 2021 6:04 am
Forum: The Science of Sex
Topic: What turns you on?
Replies: 10
Views: 384

Re: What turns you on?

One other thing for DW, get out the massage table for a full body massage and that will nearly always get her going.

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