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by newwifenewlife
Wed Aug 04, 2021 6:36 am
Forum: Masturbation in Marriage
Topic: When do you masturbate?
Replies: 43
Views: 4165

Re: When do you masturbate?

I have turned to masturbating alot due to my DW rejecting sex...she doesn't know and i'm not going to get into it with her because she already believes I'm a pervert for wanting sex more than once a month. ... I think if you hide your sexual needs, you can drive a wedge in your relationship, feel d...
by newwifenewlife
Wed Aug 04, 2021 5:40 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: New Update-Yay! , but very Humble
Replies: 7
Views: 368

Re: New Update-Yay! , but very Humble

I know the sentiment, but may I suggest a change in terms? I do so because the words we use to describe things actually has impact on how we view them and handle them. It's not a battle or a war. It is a relationship with ebb and flow, compromise and negotiation, sacrificial love and submission of ...
by newwifenewlife
Wed Aug 04, 2021 1:20 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 08/04/21 - Side, stomach, or back sleeper?
Replies: 15
Views: 152

Re: 08/04/21 - Side, stomach, or back sleeper?

Back - I’ve been told I look like a corpse. Side sleeping kills my back and shoulders and the stomach just hurts my back and neck.
by newwifenewlife
Tue Aug 03, 2021 5:51 am
Forum: Masturbation in Marriage
Topic: When do you masturbate?
Replies: 43
Views: 4165

Re: When do you masturbate?

I personally have stopped unless it's with my wife. I find it's made me ask for sex more as well as made me more affectionate and passionate to my wife. THIS! Yep. I have not done it without my wife except when traveling. Even when we’re sideways, my sexual energy compels me to reconcile the relati...
by newwifenewlife
Tue Aug 03, 2021 12:38 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 08/03/21 - Which would you choose?
Replies: 12
Views: 370

Re: 08/03/21 - Which would you choose?

I’d say A. DW would probably say B since she enjoys cooking and she always enjoys a clean house and does a great job of maintaining it but it takes a lot of time.
by newwifenewlife
Tue Aug 03, 2021 12:35 am
Forum: Activities & Items
Topic: To Husbands: Thoughts on planning an encounter for wives
Replies: 1
Views: 127

Re: To Husbands: Thoughts on planning an encounter for wives

I can definitely say that the #3 scenario without planned orgasm or intentional arousal stimulation is something I enjoy with dear wife, especially if one of us is or has been sick. It’s also a way to connect when we’ve been disconnected. The naked conversation and touch is something that differenti...
by newwifenewlife
Mon Aug 02, 2021 1:52 pm
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 08/02/21 - Relationship Goals
Replies: 3
Views: 194

Re: 08/02/21 - Relationship Goals

-we have a list of trips we want to take before I hit 65-70 -financial and retirement goals to hit by age 65 & 70 for me -dreams of traveling with contract work for DW after I retire -growing in understanding narcissism and emotional abuse and how to deal with DW’s ex and encourage other people ...
by newwifenewlife
Mon Aug 02, 2021 10:26 am
Forum: On-Topic Chit-Chat
Topic: Healing and Overcoming Hurts
Replies: 8
Views: 309

Re: Healing and Overcoming Hurts

… but in my experience the only true way past those hidden hurts is to have them acknowledged and amends made. There is definitely a difference in healing hurts while reconciling a relationship, vs the ones that require forgiveness without reconciliation, and my answer above refers to the first typ...
by newwifenewlife
Mon Aug 02, 2021 10:24 am
Forum: On-Topic Chit-Chat
Topic: Healing and Overcoming Hurts
Replies: 8
Views: 309

Re: Healing and Overcoming Hurts

The biggest hurdle for me is when the offender refuses to take responsibility or express true contrition. Often the way of a narcissist. Over time, you kinda get numb to it. It is sooooo difficult to go back again and again. The benefits of outcome indifference is lauded here and other places like ...
by newwifenewlife
Mon Aug 02, 2021 1:08 am
Forum: Other Non-sexual Marriage Issues
Topic: First flight from the greater "nest" hitting hard
Replies: 7
Views: 190

Re: First flight from the greater "nest" hitting hard

Welcome to the club. It can be a weird transition of letting go and finding a new way to relate and communicate but it can be an enjoyable one to see them blossom.

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