Women more satisfied with sex than men.

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Women more satisfied with sex than men.

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A large analysis of 37 studies covering 7,520 individuals concluded that 'partnered women' were slightly more sexually satisfied than partnered men. Women rated their enjoyment of sex and their satisfaction with their sex life more highly than men, while men reported greater sexual arousal and greater sexual inhibition.

Great. Then they blew it when they tried to explain why women are more satisfied.

"One possible explanation for the results is that men, on average, value sexual novelty more than women do."

Yesterday I saw a study that found in partnered relationships men do most of the seeking of sex, and women say no more often than yes. Most women are having all the sex they want. Most men are not. No one thought that might influence satisfaction?

I know some women are having more sex than they want, but unless the guy is unreasonable about what he expects when that happens, it's far less distressing than being told no more than half the time.
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Interesting.
My impression is that although my wife’s libido is lower than mine, her orgasm is more of a full body experience than mine and lasts longer too.
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PaulB wrote: ↑Mon Sep 28, 2026 3:53 pm

Yesterday I saw a study that found in partnered relationships men do most of the seeking of sex, and women say no more often than yes. Most women are having all the sex they want. Most men are not. No one thought that might influence satisfaction?
This makes sense to me.
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IMO (economist's) opinion, it is all a willingness to pay question. Those women "having more sex than they want" are getting something else from the transaction. That's not necessarily a bad thing. Every decision we make is a value choice. They are receiving (hopefully) something of value in return. The good husbands make sure that is positive value, not negative avoidance value. Perhaps this plays into the whole "satisfaction" question. What is satisfaction? Does satisfaction always equal contentment? Can we be satisfied with less than optimum? If you are not getting enough sex, can you increase the value of it to the other spouse? Or can you decrease the value of it for yourself? Questions to ponder...
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My thought is that maybe women as a whole have lower expectations(due to lower desire levels) than the men therefore are more easily satisfied.

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