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Effect of Position on Physical Pleasure

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Re: Effect of Position on Physical Pleasure

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I've read many times that the fornix is a great spot for female pleasure.  DH and I  have been trying different positions trying to stimulate it, but we haven't had any luck yet.  But it's still fun to try! :)
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I have not noticed that any position feels better than others. We have a few that work for us and we both like then all. One of them definitely speeds things up, but it doesn't feel any more pleasureable. I think it just hits the right spots more accurately and therefore is faster.
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I have noticed that while I love "regular" missionary, when he pulls my legs up (one at a time or both) and puts them over his arms or shoulders, it increases the physical pleasure for me. It causes my body to squeeze him a little tighter and allows him to press deeper into me. To do the exact same position from the side of the bed, however, often feels awkward. I think this is what you were asking?
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for some reason, rear entry positions are the most pleasurable for her, by a significant amount. Neither of us is sure why. Her favorite of all time is the "Leg Slider" position, which combines rear entry plus a different sensation of entry, since my penis is "sideways." Of course, WOT is another big favorite because of increased clitoral stimulation, plus modified missionary, if I move up and engage her clitoris. So yes, position matters to her for pleasure.

For me, increased pleasure has mostly to do with the view, so reverse cowgirl and doggy are probably my two favorites for increased pleasure.
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We've done that position before, I like it :) Its a good thing that site had a written description, the picture didn't help me at all lol
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Positions that I create more pleasure for DW are simply about her comfort. If she's comfortable and capable of relaxing, then she will have the greatest potential for pleasure, but beyond that, she doesn't have any that hit anything special. The only time she expresses strong preferences is when she's warning me to avoid nailing her cervix, but that's in nearly any position, and it's really just an issue if minding my depth and not causing pain.

For me, positioning comprises a combination of factors. If I'm seeking visual stimulus, then positions that provide a nice view certainly increase my pleasure, but if I'm craving intimacy, then more intimate positions check the requisite boxes.

If she offers me a "round two" or the rarer "round three" and I'm having difficulty "finishing", I frequently get on my knees with my feet splayed to the side and lean back, which stretches my core and my joints; for some reason, that combination of mild pain from the intense stretch almost instantly puts me over the edge. I cannot explain it, but we know it really works for me.


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My wife probably gets the most pleasure from doggy style and it is definitely my favorite too. We try to incorporate this position at least once when we have sex.
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came back here to add that lately, the "riding high" position, a form of modified MOT, has been great for her, as it engages my shaft with her clitoris, and has led to multiple simultaneous orgasm experiences for us.
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GeorgeB wrote: Mon Nov 29, 2021 6:01 am came back here to add that lately, the "riding high" position, a form of modified MOT, has been great for her, as it engages my shaft with her clitoris, and has led to multiple simultaneous orgasm experiences for us.
Is this the same as the CAT technique?
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SeekingChange wrote: Mon Nov 29, 2021 6:21 am
GeorgeB wrote: Mon Nov 29, 2021 6:01 am came back here to add that lately, the "riding high" position, a form of modified MOT, has been great for her, as it engages my shaft with her clitoris, and has led to multiple simultaneous orgasm experiences for us.
Is this the same as the CAT technique?
Kind of. But without the rocking part. The angle of penetration is more vertical and then in, so my shaft and head contact her clitoris the whole time. It works great for us, especially if I go slowly and let it build.
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