Wives being acceptant of who they are

[Mike smith]

Was combing through some old entries on this topic and found this one to br particularly insightful.
Devoted2Dearling wrote:
Dear ladies....

When are you EVER going to realize the most simple truth about godly men? I'm gonna yell now...

We love our wives' bodies!!! We do not care you are not Brittany Spears -- in fact, we're highly relieved to find out you are not! We love your body as it is! We know about the baby fat. We know about the cancer scars, the stretch marks, the little (and maybe some not so little) imperfections. And we love those imperfections because they are YOUR imperfections! We even find those imperfections sexy! They are YOUR imperfections.

So when we say we want to see you naked, we want to see you naked! We love seeing you naked! We like to think about you -- the real you -- naked! We aren't interested in someone else, or interested in a plastic version of you. We like you as you are, and are grateful you find us even mildly attractive!

So PU-LEEZE ladies. Don't be shy in front of your greatest admirer, your best friend, your one true beloved who wants to do nothing quite as much as adore that body you seem so ashamed of. WE are not ashamed of it. We can't wait to see it. We adore it.

And we are waiting for you to understand this. Don't ask yourself why we adore your bodies... instead, just tell yourself the truth. WE DO! And that, ladies, is that.

[Olorin]

Totally agree. Very well said.

To put a fine point on it, for godly men there is nothing more exhilarating than seeing, feeling, kissing, sucking, tasting, touching, and becoming one with their brides, no matter if its the first year or the 35th year of marriage.

[TxGuy]

I have come to the conclusion that most “normal” guys feel this way about their wife. However, I have also come to the conclusion that if you can find a wife that understands this, they are a unicorn. Our society starts telling them at an early age what the “perfect” body type is or the right measurements or boob size. They just cannot grasp that we are just as horny over them when they are a size 2 as we are when they are a size 22. I have no idea what we can do different or if there is even anything we can do to help them understand this. I shall keep trying.

[Olorin]

I have come to the conclusion that most “normal” guys feel this way about their wife. However, I have also come to the conclusion that if you can find a wife that understands this, they are a unicorn. Our society starts telling them at an early age what the “perfect” body type is or the right measurements or boob size. They just cannot grasp that we are just as horny over them when they are a size 2 as we are when they are a size 22. I have no idea what we can different or if there is even anything we can do to help them understand this. I shall keep trying.

Let me know if you find the secret!!!

[SallyMae]

There are also many men that dump their 45 year old size 22 wife for a 22 year old size 4 babe.

Like Stills said love the one your with. I agree most men don't care what size they women they married has become. Even those that carry an extra weight themselves.

But as women we always notice imperfections in us but ignore the ones in our man.

[Deleted User 4281]

Like Stills said love the one your with. I agree most men don't care what size they women they married has become. Even those that carry an extra weight themselves.

But as women we always notice imperfections in us but ignore the ones in our man.

I agree that this is generally true. However, my wife has stated in her own subtle way that she wishes I had a larger penis.

[PaulB]

Briliant, well said.

And ladies, when we compliment you and you argue with us, that is not making anything better for you or us! It feels like we are being accused of lying!