What are your goals during lovemaking?

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That was probably our primary source of contention when we were active and was a large part of the reason for the end of our sex life. I felt it imperative that I give her pleasure and she was to self conscious to allow me to observe it or know it or do anything to facilitate it.
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For us it's partly about pleasure but a lot about connection. It's very beautiful and meaningful.
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JoeG wrote: Mon Nov 21, 2022 4:06 pm For us it's partly about pleasure but a lot about connection. It's very beautiful and meaningful.
Without the connection, something tells me that there wouldn’t be any LM in the first place. Physically, sex feels really nice, but without the connection, it’s not the amazing gift between husband and wife that it’s supposed to be.
The main purpose of life is to live it with the man I love.
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Neither of us vocalized a goal as far as I know...
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Tracking Mill Bench wrote: Wed Nov 23, 2022 3:29 pm Neither of us vocalized a goal as far as I know...
I meant it as what are the things that you really want. They don’t have to be vocal.
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Sorry things we wanted never came up either. Seems we already had them.
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In addition to what I said earlier, it is definitely a goal of mine to have DW orgasm. That does not always happen, but I make sure that we try as long as she wants. Sex is definitely more fulfilling for me if we both cum.
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KatieMarie wrote: Mon Nov 21, 2022 6:58 am
Ron wrote: Mon Nov 21, 2022 5:20 am My goal is to make my wife feel as good in whatever way she wants. She loves being touched and rubbed, I love to rub her feet, calves and back. I try to give her whatever sexual pleasure she wants. After I give my wife everything she wants, then i have my fun. "She Cums First".
Good man!
Thanks! I try to take care of my wife.
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To make her explode in orgasm. At least once!
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DesertDweller wrote: Thu Nov 24, 2022 5:53 am To make her explode in orgasm. At least once!
This^^^
The most intimate and fulfilling part of our marriage bed is watching her tilt her head back and let out a loud primal scream during her climax. Very gratifying for me (and her :lol: ) and very emotionally bonding to be that vulnerable. That moment and the process of getting there is the goal.
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