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A question about female orgasm and PIV.

The woman usually has an orgasm before PIV
31
47%
The woman usually doesn't orgasm before PIV, but usually orgasms during or after
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35%
The woman never orgasms when we have PIV
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14%
We don't have PIV
3
5%
 
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Re: A question about female orgasm and PIV.

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southernf wrote: Thu Jan 19, 2023 12:52 pm
KatieMarie wrote: Wed Jan 18, 2023 8:11 pm
southernf wrote: Wed Jan 18, 2023 12:52 pm For me, I usually (but not always) have one before PIV during foreplay, almost never have one during PIV (but have on occasion), and never have one after. I honestly have never thought strongly about having one after... but it may just be because when he has his, it has just always seemed like the natural conclusion. I know it doesn't have to be that way, but it's just always been our way and I never really questioned it that much... probably because of my lack of experience before marriage.
So your hubby pulls out, rolls over and falls asleep too? :lol:
:lol: There have definitely those times. I think it's just always been the end for us. Have there been times when I wished it lasted longer for my enjoyment? Definitely, but I've never really pressed that because honestly he has always been pretty generous during foreplay.
Same with me. I mean he’s usually really generous before. Afterwards? He’s sleepy.
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Re: A question about female orgasm and PIV.

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I usually will manually stimulate DW’s clitoris until she orgasms then we have PIV intercourse. Occasionally she will ask me to stop stimulating her and try to orgasm from PIV. It works about half the time.
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Re: A question about female orgasm and PIV.

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Usually during and after, and after that, etc.
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Re: A question about female orgasm and PIV.

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My wife has no problem orgasming before piv sex or after. But once she has done both, that’s when she starts getting tired.
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Re: A question about female orgasm and PIV.

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Strange that we are not built to orgasm easily during PIV. When I realized I did not normally, I looked up the stats and found I was normal after all.
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A lot of people seemed to have misunderstood this post. My original intention was to figure out if a significant number of women had difficulty with PIV AFTER an orgasm. My post has NOTHING to do with whether a woman can have an orgasm DURING PIV, which is a whole separate issue. I'm beginning to think this is primarily a phenomenon experienced by women with vaginismus, like my wife. If my wife has an orgasm before PIV, she is unable to have PIV because she is too tired or sensitive. It came to my surprise that non-vaginismus women can actually easily have PIV after an orgasm.
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Re: A question about female orgasm and PIV.

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Brian O'Kane wrote: Fri Apr 28, 2023 4:57 pm A lot of people seemed to have misunderstood this post. My original intention was to figure out if a significant number of women had difficulty with PIV AFTER an orgasm. My post has NOTHING to do with whether a woman can have an orgasm DURING PIV, which is a whole separate issue. I'm beginning to think this is primarily a phenomenon experienced by women with vaginismus, like my wife. If my wife has an orgasm before PIV, she is unable to have PIV because she is too tired or sensitive. It came to my surprise that non-vaginismus women can actually easily have PIV after an orgasm.
I want PIV more if I have orgasmed, by him or my vibrator or my own hand.
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IntimateMoment wrote: Sat Apr 29, 2023 8:21 am I want PIV more if I have orgasmed, by him or my vibrator or my own hand.
That’s true for Mrs. Oldbear, too. We most often do ‘she comes first’ and then she needs/pleads for me for PIV.
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Re: A question about female orgasm and PIV.

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IntimateMoment wrote: Sat Apr 29, 2023 8:21 am
Brian O'Kane wrote: Fri Apr 28, 2023 4:57 pm A lot of people seemed to have misunderstood this post. My original intention was to figure out if a significant number of women had difficulty with PIV AFTER an orgasm. My post has NOTHING to do with whether a woman can have an orgasm DURING PIV, which is a whole separate issue. I'm beginning to think this is primarily a phenomenon experienced by women with vaginismus, like my wife. If my wife has an orgasm before PIV, she is unable to have PIV because she is too tired or sensitive. It came to my surprise that non-vaginismus women can actually easily have PIV after an orgasm.
I want PIV more if I have orgasmed, by him or my vibrator or my own hand.
I can't imagine this. I think it's my wife's vaginismus. She is too exhausted and sensitive after an orgasm to have PIV. We haven't had PIV in 4 years, but back in the days when we did, if she came before PIV, PIV wasn't happening.
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Re: A question about female orgasm and PIV.

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My wife is also generally one and done. So, she usually has orgasms during PIV or afterwards. We don’t find it difficult for her to have orgasm during PIV so that’s her usual choice.
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