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Always a rest period before another round. What works for me sometimes is after we both O wife will nap while I get up and do odds and ends in the house or yard for 20-30 minutes then I will come back and gently awaken my wife for another round.
If I stay in bed the refractory thing puts me to sleep.
I don't think I have ever had an orgasm without ejaculating.
I read a study once that found men that can have multiple orgasms often, have low prolactin hormone levels. When most males orgasm, their prolactin levels go way up and reduce both sexual desire and ability and have a refractory period. Most women's prolactin levels don't increase much during orgasm, so they can maintain sexual desire and ability.
The first was my first-ever experience of sexual intercourse, which was on our honeymoon. I was pretty nervous, plus we didn't execute well. My first orgasm inside of my wife can only be described as "partial", and I was able to immediately continue and get a second several minutes later. That scenario has only happened then and never in any other situation.
The other two have happened in the last year, our 14th year of marriage with me in my mid-/late-30's. I had noticed for a while that during times when I'd help her get a second O (by fingering) after we'd both already finished in PIV+vibe I would stay flaccid during the process but often get firm once she started O'ing (likely as much from no longer needing to focus as from how hot it is to see one's wife O). So one night when I was particularly feeling that way, I kept my other hand on my penis to give it a little physical stimulation, and once she started her second O, I rapidly got erect and went for a second through PIV, and actually got there! That first time was ~25 min of fingering, but I did it a second time months later with just 10-12 minutes of fingering. In between, I got erect enough that we did additional PIV, but I did not get a second O...to be fair, one of those likely would have gotten me a second, but my elbow hit the phone and switched our music to Christmas music, which ruined the sexy mood.
Not sure if I've always been able to do this or not. There were a couple times with porn/masturbation (which are both more stimulating than PIV) that I could do it within a half an hour, but even those were few/far between and more forced than what these were.