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I love her dearly and really believe she feels the same towards me. We do have IC once or twice a week, and I thank her for it, she says its her "duty". I'd like for it to be more than just a duty.
Loss of libido could be a result of menopause. Perhaps your GP can advise?
There is an extent to which libido does reduce with age, and probably most women her age are "like that", but if she has the desire to, then it might be possible to use HRT or other medications to increase her libido.
I can only say that since typing that, it has only gotten better. I'm halfway past 70 toward 80 and she'll turn 70 sooner than she'd like.
I will have to say, in retrospect, that the basis of our current situation is a woman who always liked sex in the first place. What the bHRT solved was overcoming the ravages of age and menopause and the "...rectomies" (female plumbing work that did away with an important source of women's hormones). Now she gets to enjoy sex to the fullest extent. And, believe you me, I enjoy her enjoying it.
To make my reply relevant to the OP's question, I came back to edit and add:
During those post menopausal and especially during the period of years between when DW lost her hormone producing body parts and the discovery of bHRT, she wasn't much interested in sex, but would give me my once per week as any good dutiful wife would.