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What does everyone do with the leakage after sex. We alway have some toilet paper close by, but it’s always a buzz kill when u have to get up RIGHT after and clean up.
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We keep baby wipes nearby. Works great for us. Just what we do.
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I get up and go to the bathroom, always have so it's normal for us and we don't give it a second thought.... at least I don't. I have no desire to change it, because I don't want to deal with "leakage" all night.
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For a long time we've positioned a clean dry washcloth close to the head of the bed; After we catch our breaths, one of us will grab it and apply to her vulva. This lets her get up off the bed and head to the bathroom for the post-sex pee (very important, of course). Confession: I also get a little kick out of her 'waddle', rather than walk. ;)

We've also done damp, but it tends to get cold, and un-inviting and physically shocking. No. Not what we want after the glorious moments.

TP, or even Kleenex works, but it's so .. utilitarian. Me planning ahead and having there before we get hot & heavy always garners extra hubby points. Shows I'm thinking about the 'whole act' rather than just the fireworks.

After her visit to the bathroom and cleaning herself, she often comes back with a warm wet washcloth for my parts.

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I have always gotten up immediately after to go to the bathroom and wipe up. It doesn't bother us.

Sometimes we will come back to bed and snuggle for a bit . More often we will either go to sleep or get up and start our day depending on whether it's morning or night.
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rlkn wrote: Wed Jan 12, 2022 4:37 pm What does everyone do with the leakage after sex. We alway have some toilet paper close by, but it’s always a buzz kill when u have to get up RIGHT after and clean up.
My wife can squirt quite a bit, about like pouring a glass, sometimes two, on the bed.

I went to a Walmart that sells cloth and got the plastic used to cover furniture and cut some of that. I made it into mats. I put a towel on the mat. I bought pink towels just for sex. It seemed an appropriate color. The kids got the towels and I didn't want to say, "Those are just for catching female ejaculate', so that didn't work out. I need to find a different color.

Anyway, we use the towel combined with toilet paper. We try to catch ejaculate when she squirts it out during push-out orgasms because that is a bit thicker and doesn't wash out as well, I presume, than her fluids.

When we are done, if the towel is wet, we can rinse it out in the shower. We also rinse or wash off the plastic mat. That dries pretty quickly. If she hasn't had a female ejaculation and no sperm got on the towel, I might set it aside somewhere for the next session.

We have used baby wipes a bit, especially when we had babies and there were a lot of wipes around. Those are really good for handjobs if she wants to keep stroking after ejaculation, to wipe up the ejaculation so it doesn't mix too much with the lube. Semen is kind of harsh as a lube for extended play.
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We use condoms 98% of the time for PIV so the mess is contained. Even then, we both almost immediately head to the restroom where she pees and I remove the condom (and sometimes also pee). On the twice a year occasion of no condom, it’s pretty much the same thing, just with her “depositing” my semen in the toilet and me wiping off my penis with toilet paper and maybe a baby wipe.
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We keep a collection of hand towels in my bedside table. Those generally contain / clean up semen, lube etc.
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We just grab a towel before we start.
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jj1234 wrote: Wed Jan 12, 2022 11:43 pm Curious. When you go to the Barth room does gravity deal with the semen or do you need to wipe/ encourage it out of you?
After peeing, it takes a little extra wiping. Nothing more than that.
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