09/22/2022 - Fast or slow when there's been a longer break from sex?

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09/22/2022 - Fast or slow when there's been a longer break from sex?

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When there has been a longer break between times of having sex with your spouse, do you prefer to take it slower and be more sensual? Or do you prefer to move at a faster pace?
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Re: 09/22/2022 - Fast or slow when there's been a longer break from sex?

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Right :) While we both prefer a sensual, slow time if it's been a while, sometimes he just needs a release asap. :D


And I don’t know about you, but I enjoy letting my DH get his “release” sometimes. :lol:
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Re: 09/22/2022 - Fast or slow when there's been a longer break from sex?

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We both know, and accept that if the separation has been some number of days, that I'll be "quick on the trigger" first time after we reconnect.

So, we generally get that behind us with a definite plan for tomorrow when I'll be in better form.

She is largely the same way in that she finishes quickly if it has been a while, so we proceed accordingly toward the end of the both of us having a wonderful stretched out time the next day.
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Re: 09/22/2022 - Fast or slow when there's been a longer break from sex?

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What I want and what I might be capable of doing are two different things sometimes. I would many times if the schedule is wonky, it’s a fast one and followed up with 12-24 hrs with a longer session. Both can come quickly if it’s been a separation of a week or more.
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Re: 09/22/2022 - Fast or slow when there's been a longer break from sex?

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I tend to like to a really fast animal session just to take the edge off for me followed by a build up for her, orgasm, and round 2 for me. In about 45 min or so.
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Re: 09/22/2022 - Fast or slow when there's been a longer break from sex?

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Our 'speed' is about the same no matter how much time has elapsed since last intercourse/sexual play.
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Re: 09/22/2022 - Fast or slow when there's been a longer break from sex?

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I think we both prefer fast. It's one of the few times she seems to be ready to respond quickly.
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Re: 09/22/2022 - Fast or slow when there's been a longer break from sex?

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My husband wants it fast and furious. I want slow.
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Re: 09/22/2022 - Fast or slow when there's been a longer break from sex?

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If it’s been a while, we are both looking for hard and fast. Usually we will still have a lot of foreplay but when it’s time for actual intercourse, DW says she “just wants to be pounded.” I’m happy to oblige and can’t think of many things I’d rather hear my wife say… ;)
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