11/23/2022 - Do you ever just "think too much"?

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11/23/2022 - Do you ever just "think too much"?

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Case in point I decided to just spontaneously initiate sex last night. This is not normal for me as when the opportunity arises to spontaneously initate I often overthink things ("this isn't the perfect time, what if she's not feeling up to it, what if we stay up too late, will I go too quickly, etc. etc.).

Last night I told those voices to shut up and just went for it. Long story short we had what we both described as a "Top 10". DW later told me that knowing sex is going to happen far in advance often makes her overthink things in a similar vein. This makes it less likely for her to enjoy sex.

So do any of y'all also overthink your sex life or any other area of life?
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Re: 11/23/2022 - Do you ever just "think too much"?

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Of course!!!! :lol: :lol: :lol:
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Re: 11/23/2022 - Do you ever just "think too much"?

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Yes I find I do this when I make big plans in my head for activities for sex when we are having a night totally alone meaning no son in the house. Usually when I make all these elaborate plans DH and I end up completing at most 2 out of 6 plans I may make. Then we end up snuggling & falling asleep. Nothing like "Great Expectations." LOL
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Re: 11/23/2022 - Do you ever just "think too much"?

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I'm not sure I over think things but I am guilty of over planning sex especially in the past. I would go to great extremes to set the perfect scene and be prepared for whatever she might want.

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