05/25/2023 - Do you prefer hotter or cooler showers?
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05/25/2023 - Do you prefer hotter or cooler showers?
Do you prefer to take hotter or cooler showers/baths?
When you shower with your spouse, do you both prefer the same temperature or do you have to compromise and set it lower/higher than your preference?
When you shower with your spouse, do you both prefer the same temperature or do you have to compromise and set it lower/higher than your preference?
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Re: 05/25/2023 - Do you prefer hotter or cooler showers?
Very hot, especially if I am going to enjoys touching myself, exploring my body, making sure every crevice is clean.
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Re: 05/25/2023 - Do you prefer hotter or cooler showers?
I like hot. When he steps in, he acts like he's being scalded. I will turn it down some until he acclimates, and then I slowly turn it back up. 

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Re: 05/25/2023 - Do you prefer hotter or cooler showers?
We both like pretty hot showers.
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Re: 05/25/2023 - Do you prefer hotter or cooler showers?
We like it pretty hot but her heat tolerance is slightly higher than mine.
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Re: 05/25/2023 - Do you prefer hotter or cooler showers?
We both start out with it pretty hot and then we turn it up more as we get acclimated. If one of us hops in the shower a couple of minutes after the other has already started it often feels too hot at first!
Now, in the summer, especially if we have been working outside, a hot shower just doesn't feel great. Then we will turn it down to just slightly warm.
Now, in the summer, especially if we have been working outside, a hot shower just doesn't feel great. Then we will turn it down to just slightly warm.
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Re: 05/25/2023 - Do you prefer hotter or cooler showers?
I generally prefer nicely warm, unless it is summer and I have been working outside, then I prefer it to be as cool as I can stand it.
My wife loves HOT showers...so, when we shower together, I better not have just come in from the yard....
My wife loves HOT showers...so, when we shower together, I better not have just come in from the yard....
Re: 05/25/2023 - Do you prefer hotter or cooler showers?
I love a hot shower, and since putting in a tankless water heater, I can steam myself as long as I like without worrying about running out of hot water.
DW prefers it a bit cooler.
DW prefers it a bit cooler.
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Re: 05/25/2023 - Do you prefer hotter or cooler showers?
I like the water slightly cooler than hubby. He thinks my showers are too cold... but they aren't 
Re: 05/25/2023 - Do you prefer hotter or cooler showers?
She loves showers much hotter than I do. When we shower together she always drops it down a few degrees to compensate for me and our rising heat!!

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