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04/28/2021 - If you could change an aspect of how sex works what would you change?

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04/28/2021 - If you could change an aspect of how sex works what would you change?

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For me it would be eliminating the mess afterwards. It can be a hassle to prepare and then clean things up after the deed. Things would be a bit easier and more romantic if we could just finish and go straight to cuddles/sleep vs. clean up time.
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Re: 04/28/2021 - If you could change an aspect of how sex works what would you change?

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It would be wonderful if the female body was more predictable. It can be quite frustrating to know something has worked before, but it's not working now, and what works now, may not work tomorrow.
God can change what people do, behavioral patterns that have been in play for decades. He can change what we do to cope, to find comfort, to survive conflict, to count. Rahab had done a same old thing for years... and then she did something new.
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Female response and orgasm were more predictable and could be easily, at least more easily, achieved from PIV.
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Re: 04/28/2021 - If you could change an aspect of how sex works what would you change?

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An on button would be nice . But I agree the clean up is a hassle for her, if that was eliminated she might enjoy sex more. And semen tasted like chocolate.

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Re: 04/28/2021 - If you could change an aspect of how sex works what would you change?

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SLS wrote: Tue Apr 27, 2021 8:30 pm For me it would be eliminating the mess afterwards. It can be a hassle to prepare and then clean things up after the deed. Things would be a bit easier and more romantic if we could just finish and go straight to cuddles/sleep vs. clean up time.
I used to wear a condom just for that purpose, especially if it was at bedtime and wife didn't want to get back out of bed. I know there will be groaning over a suggestion like that, but it worked and we did it for a long time. There are some thin ones that actually don't feel bad at all.
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Re: 04/28/2021 - If you could change an aspect of how sex works what would you change?

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If I am reading this question right, it seems that it is asking for a general change in marriages overall as I will not answer this question as it pertains to my specific marriage. I think it would be great if the desire in low drive spouses and high drive spouses were more equal and balanced.
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Re: 04/28/2021 - If you could change an aspect of how sex works what would you change?

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SeekingChange wrote: Tue Apr 27, 2021 8:54 pm It would be wonderful if the female body was more predictable. It can be quite frustrating to know something has worked before, but it's not working now, and what works now, may not work tomorrow.
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Re: 04/28/2021 - If you could change an aspect of how sex works what would you change?

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I'd want pre-encounter desire levels to be close to the same for both sexes and females to be more uniform in their ability to orgasm from regular intercourse.
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I would choose to delete the 10 minutes before sex. It's such a huge thing to me, I suppose because of responsive desire. I know it's our night for sex, I know the sex will be good, and the afterglow great. But, I still have to wait for that desire to come. Then, as I feel it creeping over me, I inwardly breathe a huge sigh of relief and I feel like the hardest part is done and now I can relax and enjoy. And wonder why I ever had those feelings in the first place. Lol, only to repeat it all again the next time.
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Re: 04/28/2021 - If you could change an aspect of how sex works what would you change?

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SeekingChange wrote: Tue Apr 27, 2021 8:54 pm It would be wonderful if the female body was more predictable. It can be quite frustrating to know something has worked before, but it's not working now, and what works now, may not work tomorrow.
Total truth there!!! How about a Staples "easy" button? Heck, how about an Owners Manual/Instructions? I'd be more than willing to read and study it.
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