1/14/22 What are you gonna do for yourself today? For your spouse?

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1/14/22 What are you gonna do for yourself today? For your spouse?

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Self care is important.
- What is one thing you are gonna do for yourself today?

Relationships grow with nurture and investment.
- What is one thing you are gonna do for your spouse today?
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Re: 1/14/22 What are you gonna do for yourself today? For your spouse?

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For me get outside and enjoy the day, stay active but not work too hard

For her: I shaved up her fun zone earlier and will do some things on her "Honey do list" just to see her smile.

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I will go for a run this evening, or exercise indoors if its too icy outside.

When she's done with work we'll watch Station Eleven together.
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After everyone left for the day, except DH, I brewed a nice big cup of coffee in my french press. Then, I sat down where I could see the gorgeous sunrise.

DH is possibly going to help a friend remodel a house for another friend. He said he would rather spend time driving home for lunch, then go to the bachelor's house with his co worker. Lol, I said he was more than welcome to show up at my table and bring his co worker along. I'd make lunch for both.
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Re: 1/14/22 What are you gonna do for yourself today? For your spouse?

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Great question!

Today I start swimming again. I get plenty of exercise during the summer and fall working outside, but with more than a foot of snow that's not an option right now. And at sixty if I sit for too many months I need half the summer to get back to where I was. My goal is to work up to a mile three months from now.

Noting special for Lori today, just the things I usually do for her on a daily basis. Snuggle coffee morning and afternoon, hugs here and there, sex, dinner, a game of Splendor and a backrub at bed time.
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For me, I will relax by listening to an audio book and working on some diamond art.

For him, so far, I initiated morning sex.
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Taking DW out for lunch.

Me? I usually have an assignment but I’m gonna watch some HS bball instead and probably enjoy a couple bday food stops on the way home.
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Me: I have to make sure I find time each day to do some exercises to keep my back from complaining too loudly. Other than that, I am set to go visit with our pastor this evening for a bit, so I guess you could call that self care.

For Her: Not much time today for anything major. Today is one of our busier days. Sneaking a few hugs/kisses/roaming hands in throughout the day, and we always snuggle to warm up the bed at bedtime. But that will likely be the extent of it unless she happens to be on the right day of her cycle and actually desires more.
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Answering late in the day, so for Saturday …

Get in a workout on my recombinant bicycle and my stretching/strength exercises.

Make breakfast for Mrs. Oldbear.
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For Me: I will do some reading today and probably watch some NFL playoff football.

For Her: I will clean our bathroom (as I do every weekend) and wash our bed sheets.
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