I just wanted to try it, OS I mean, both ways. Just seemed like a logical activity to enjoy.69greyshades wrote: ↑Wed Jan 20, 2021 9:26 am Q: Are there husbands out there who had to get willing to bless their wife this way?
A: It was a decission that needed to be made. I went down on her a couple of days after we got married.
Q: Did your wife ask you to do it, or it was something you wanted to bless her with, and you worked on it until you were able to start?
A: she didn't ask, I offered to her, as a surprise. The first time she was shocked, and when I started going down on her, in the middle of the shock she asked: " where are you going?". I said something like: " just relax... and... enjoy."
Similar to what you did, I just started moving down one time on our honeymoon and she responded like that too. "What are you trying to do?" As I look back, that line should have puzzled me and scared me as well. I felt it was obvious what I was doing, how could she not know? Now I know that she really didn't want it done to her and would prefer not to do it to me either. Just differences of expectations I guess.