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- California King
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- Joined: Sat Jan 09, 2021 9:00 am
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We've been in rather a dry spell for a while, but it is fun. when we do it. I kinda prefer to start lying on our sides, maybe finish it that way or roll over with her on top. I'm reluctant to be on top 'cuz I'm much bigger and heavier than she is, and I don't want to lose control and squish her. On the other hand, one of my best ever orgasms from oral was during 69 with me on top; something she did just sent me over the top right away. I didn't have time to warn her I was coming, to prepare her. Whew!
I love it due to its whole body closely intimate experience. I thoroughly enjoy the physical and emotional feeling of being so close to her I can not tell where my body ends and hers begins. 69 does that to me. She says the same thing.... however....
She does not have my talent for multi-tasking, thus she finds the simultaneous actions of aggressively giving pleasure, at the same time passively receiving pleasure, to be difficult. Very early in our marriage, she complained she was afraid of this position because she though she would cause me harm with her teeth when she reached orgasm, which can be, for her, a most violent event.
On other web sites, dealing with surveys about sex from a secular point of view, I have read this same complaint of having to multi-task from women.
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This is my experience, and not just with 69. I don't care for 69 because I don't find it pleasurable. I can either focus on pleasure or I can focus on the giving, but can't do both. So 69 is totally a "for him" thing, otherwise I would prefer the giving of OS to be separate events rather than a simultaneous one.