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I’ve read that sexual arousal negates feelings of disgust. Maybe people with low libido and low arousal tend to be inhibited by germaphobe feelings regarding oral sex.
Brynna wrote: ↑Wed Jan 20, 2021 8:25 am
Are there husbands out there who had to get willing to bless their wife this way?
What is/was your aversion to it?
Never an issue
How did you get over it, or haven't you, yet?
Does not apply
Did your wife ask you to do it, or it was something you wanted to bless her with, and you worked on it until you were able to start?
It just happened. Neither planned nor requested
How did your wife feel about you not doing it? Did she feel it was her fault?
Does not apply
We use it more as foreplay, though it does bring her to orgasm.
My personal experiences:
I can taste a change in her body at climax. Her orgasm has a slightly sweet, slightly peppermint flavor which I find most enjoyable.
As soon as she has her climax, I enter her vaginally, while she is still in orgasm and she climaxes again fairly quickly and causes her body's sensitivity to be heightened to my orgasm. Thus, we tend to climax together. I believe this trained her to become multi-orgasmic on a regular basis.
My first time was like that, I was so excited I felt out of control and I was very conscious of my heart racing. I take my time now and am a lot more skillful. I still find it very exciting and my heart rate still doubles. Fortunately my DW has her most intense orgasms from oral/digital stimulation.
My desire to lick her is almost a fetish but I have no idea how I come to have this response apart from having a high libido. But since my DW's gratification is entirely compatible it is not a problem.
Both of us had the same reaction.
Mine was the first penis she had ever seen in her entire life.
Later, she told me, "It was the most beautiful thing I had ever seen. I do not know why, I just knew I had to love you with my mouth." She had never before seen it done, nor read about, nor had it explained. She just followed her "spirit of the moment" and did what seemed natural. All I can say is "WOW!"
For a brief moment, I did think, she had done this before. I very soon learned of her total sincerity in all things.
Her reaction to me loving her was "off the hook."
This was all foreplay for our first time, our wedding night.
The totality made our wedding night the most exciting, most beautiful experience either of us had ever known.