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Secret encouragement

What about masturbation by those who are married? This section is for talking about self-stimulation either alone or with your spouse. (Masturbation for children and singles discussed elsewhere.)
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Tallboy
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Secret encouragement

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When I have had to travel for work or when we were unable to have sex together for any reason, my wife will often leave a pair or two of her worn panties for me to find - in my bag or under a pillow. She knows I will love the highly personal link to her. It's also an encouragement to relax, masturbate and remember being physically connected to her. We've never really talked about it. Just a tacit understanding and sexy game between us.

Does anyone else have a similar thing with spouse -either related to masturbation or anything else?
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Re: Secret encouragement

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As a general comment, it sounds like you have yourself one sweet wife - that she would think of you in that way and do that on her own.

My DW would hide cards in my luggage from time to time, but never anything personal, and we didn't discuss masturbation when we were younger, so I don't know if she expected me to or knew that I might back then. And, I didn't know if she, back home was or not. But, we come from a different generation. We still had rotary phones back then, if you know what those are.
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Re: Secret encouragement

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No never had that happen but I think it's awesome that she does that for you.

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MiddleMan
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Other than leaving love notes here or there, certainly nothing sexual, we haven't done anything like that. But that is an awesome idea!
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Re: Secret encouragement

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Tallboy wrote: Fri Jul 16, 2021 3:58 am When I have had to travel for work or when we were unable to have sex together for any reason, my wife will often leave a pair or two of her worn panties for me to find - in my bag or under a pillow. She knows I will love the highly personal link to her. It's also an encouragement to relax, masturbate and remember being physically connected to her. We've never really talked about it. Just a tacit understanding and sexy game between us.

Does anyone else have a similar thing with spouse -either related to masturbation or anything else?
Do you do anything similar for her to reciprocate?
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Re: Secret encouragement

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I used to travel a lot for work and my wife always told me it was ok to masturbate while gone and would even pack some lube for me to use. Sometimes I would leave her a vibrator under her pillow when I was going to be gone.
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