Do you, or have you questioned what is ok with God inside the bedroom?

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I cringe when people shout "Jesus Christ!" in anger - it's used as a swear word, yet it's perfectly acceptable to shout his name in worship. So maybe slang for sexual acts and anatomy might not really be "swearing" when used in the bedroom, only out of the bedroom n inappropriate situations?
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buck22 wrote: Fri Feb 24, 2023 1:51 pm I don’t know if I can prove it biblically, I just don’t truly know what the term sexual immoral covers I know it’s homosexuality and adultery but what else it might mean scares me, I wish I new for certain that I had the freedom to use toys because we really have enjoyed them.
Maybe this would be helpful, or at least a good place to start on what God truly says "no" to.... viewtopic.php?p=74647#p74647 (2nd post down, by me.)
God can change what people do, behavioral patterns that have been in play for decades. He can change what we do to cope, to find comfort, to survive conflict, to count. Rahab had done a same old thing for years... and then she did something new.
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sayayo7565 wrote: Fri Feb 24, 2023 2:51 pm I cringe when people shout "Jesus Christ!" in anger - it's used as a swear word, yet it's perfectly acceptable to shout his name in worship. So maybe slang for sexual acts and anatomy might not really be "swearing" when used in the bedroom, only out of the bedroom n inappropriate situations?
I get this, it's hard to allow yourself to say things that were always a "No, that's wrong." Context, intent, and heart is what deems something like our words, appropriate/right, or not.
God can change what people do, behavioral patterns that have been in play for decades. He can change what we do to cope, to find comfort, to survive conflict, to count. Rahab had done a same old thing for years... and then she did something new.
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SeekingChange wrote: Fri Feb 24, 2023 3:04 pm
buck22 wrote: Fri Feb 24, 2023 1:51 pm I don’t know if I can prove it biblically, I just don’t truly know what the term sexual immoral covers I know it’s homosexuality and adultery but what else it might mean scares me, I wish I new for certain that I had the freedom to use toys because we really have enjoyed them.
Maybe this would be helpful, or at least a good place to start on what God truly says "no" to.... viewtopic.php?p=74647#p74647 (2nd post down, by me.)
Thank you I appreciate this I like what Julie Slattery and Linda Dillow have to say, it is a battle I’ve dealt with for years
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I think its what is in your heart that matters for instance if your DW wears a penis sized strap on for giving you anal what are you fantasizing about?I use a prostate massager for health and pleasure.The last thing on my mind is gay sex which is a hurdle DW has gotten past.
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Honestly, I just do what feels right in the moment.
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Where no law is sin is not imputed. I've wasted enough of my life wondering if something in the bedroom was Godly or not. I can't see in scripture anything about what you shouldn't do in the marriage bed although lots of human beings will legislate against some things. So long as you both agree and there are no third parties which includes porn the marriage bed is undefiled. We don't do oral sex because my wife is not happy with it. That's fine we are not legislating for others. No anal either. DW is sensitive about germs but that is her and it would not be right to force anything. There are things we do which I am sure some on here would not approve of. That's why I am not going to share them. Once bitten twice shy.
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Everyone has their own ideas on what is and isn’t wrong in the marriage bed. As someone stated if you were raised Catholic then AS is a no no. To me the Bible is pretty plain about the few things that are off limits. For me, ALL others are on the table. I’m definitely on the freaky side. I’m blessed to have a wife that follows my freaky side too.
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