Size Survey

[GeorgeB]

CTim:

I appreciate to comments and understand how playing with some erotic language about body parts can have a fun part of a marriage. I agree, it was the actual bragging about having a larger penis based on some sort of scientific measurement, and then getting aroused from this fact, that I find to be not a healthy part of a marriage.

To Others:

What you are about to read is meant to be authentic and in no way a put-down or a judgment.
I think the error I made was that I thought this website might be focused on more serious discussions about sex in a Christian marriage (e.g. truth of the Bible with a lot of science thrown in to teach). In the few post I have made in two or three discussions, I seem to have been met with more of defensiveness or someone trying to share my behaviors are OK. What I was hoping for was a more in-depth conversation. I think this website has quasi-serious discussion with a fun element. There is nothing wrong with this and I do not mean to debase anyone or suggest that my thoughts are better or more superior. It is simply my wants in coming here seem to not align with other people’s wants – which again, is totally OK and I do not mean to judge.
The very fact that Ezekial 23 is used to defend fascination and human nature and the defensiveness and suggestion that human nature is good, suggest a superficial understanding of this chapter. Ezekial 23 is meant to teach about the disgusting image of adultery and sexual sin. Maybe it is human nature and fascination, but in Ezekial 23 (when you look at the context of the entire chapter) these behaviors are sinful.
And it seems to me that much of pornography focused on emissions like horses and genitals like donkeys. I do not think such behavior – bragging about one penis size and getting turn on by size – can be associated with Christian behavior. We all make mistakes and errors, but the key is to try to change attitudes and behaviors, not defend or rationalize behavior that is clearly not Christ-like (like what Ezekial 23 states).
But with this said, I want to thank others and will search for a website that might match my wants better. I hope I make sense.

I completely understand your point of view here, Skip. For my part, I was being tongue in cheek about the Ezekiel scripture (hence the winking emoji). I was, however, being serious about Song of Songs 5:14. I wish you blessings and all the best, brother.

[SamanthaStevens]

So it never mattered to me a mans size. Hubby is a little larger than average, def not a porn star, but we have never measured. I say this because I am kind of tight and had a larger boyfriend in college and it was actually a little uncomfortable, and you could also tell he was pretty proud of it? Im smaller and had to have both kids via c section since I never progressed, maybe that has something to do with it? I actually think its all the other intangibles that your partner brings to the table? Just my opinion.

[Deleted User 2943]

Yes, my wife has measured me, It is all in fun.

I will say this, size can be an important issue to many people. My wife and I just got back from vacation and the resort kept playing "Short D--K Man" at the pool! Over and over again. I had totally forgotten about that song until the vacation.

[jacklweidman]

I am rather large so need to measure

[jacklweidman]

Yes, my wife has measured me, It is all in fun.

I will say this, size can be an important issue to many people. My wife and I just got back from vacation and the resort kept playing "Short D--K Man" at the pool! Over and over again. I had totally forgotten about that song until the vacation.

I have heard that song

[GeorgeB]

I am rather large so need to measure

Do you mean “so NO need to measure”?

[jacklweidman]

I am rather large so need to measure

Do you mean “so NO need to measure”?

Yes, thank U George. That should read, no need to measure.

[GeorgeB]

I am rather large so need to measure

Do you mean “so NO need to measure”?

Yes, thank U George. That should read, no need to measure.

Got it. I figured.