Tight or loose?

[Lynn]

How do husbands like the vagina? Tight or loose?
If it loose (and they want tight)do they prefer the anus?
Or do they do anything to help the loose situation?
Do they help by particularly MB with piv (if vagina is loose)?

[KatieMarie]

I don’t think they care, as long as we have one.

[Plumpurple]

My husband has never commented on this before, but i know it gets good for him when I flex those internal muscles and squeeze him. We have to be in the right position for me to be able to do so though.

As far as them using MB to help, my husband has done that occasionally when he's having a hard time getting started. I had a lot of insecurities about it for a long time until we finally started talking about these things last year. Then we just started framing it with getting what he needs as far as foreplay just as i need. That has helped a lot! I'll flip on my stomach so he has a different view that he likes and he'll MB for a few moments occasionally. After we talked about it i don't feel insecure about it anymore - i was assuming other reasons for his actions related to my insecurities. More often than not though I offer that stimulation for him or get on top for a few minutes until he's ready to lead something different. And I've started using MB during foreplay as well, and as I've gotten comfortable doing that for myself he has started doing the MB for me as well. It has really helped enhance the time for both of us.

Will he let you do the MB for him?

[Tantalum]

I must admit I don’t really have a basis for comparison!
My wife feels just right, neither too tight nor too loose.
Even though she had two babies naturally, she doesn’t feel any different than before.
If anything, these days it’s me who needs a bit more tightness sometimes, for a firm grip on my penis, and if I do, I just ask my wife to close her legs.

[Tracking Mill Bench]

Frankly have no idea? How does one know? But perception is I would like something less tight?

[benny]

Well this is a loaded question that could get some men on trouble lol.
But in my experience the vagina can be loose or tight depending on the level of excitement she is experiencing. If she is into it and bearing down it will be a snug fit however if it's post orgasm or she's not excited it can be loose.
As far as anal I do think the tightness is an attraction for men as well as any pleasure the woman receives.

[Will 103]

I don’t think they care, as long as we have one.

This pretty much says it like it is. While most guys like it if their wife can flex the vaginal muscles that get strengthened by doing Kegel exercises there are more important things that make married genital intercourse so rewarding. I don't think that vaginas can be described as tight or loose. When the penis is maybe six inches inside the vagina it probably feels very much the same to most of us even when we have been married for decades. I don't think that a wife needs to be concerned about how her vagina feels.

[LovingHimAlways]

My husband has never mentioned a preference. He seems happy so I'm happy.

[SeekingChange]

Well this is a loaded question that could get some men on trouble lol.

Yeah, that's probably a question my husband would be wise to keep his mouth shut on!

Honestly, I have had 4 vaginal births, I seriously doubt "tight" would be an adjective to typically describe me. What I do know, is certain postitions make things feel tighter. Doing kegels helps. There's a squeezing/milking action done with the muscles that he feels, and often takes him over the edge.

We also have noticed a distinct difference when he is dealing with hormonal imbalance, and it affects his erection quality. That was one of the first and major things that made us get his testosterone checked. We both were questioning whether my body had changed (aka loosened)... a viagra prescription made it clear it wasn't my body that had changed, but his.

[Olorin]

I don’t think they care, as long as we have one.

Truth!