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Re: Who puts condom on?

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On the handful of occasions when we tried them, my wife put them on.
We both find them a passion killer so we decided they weren’t for us.
In fact my wife hated the experience so much said she would rather have a surprise baby than use condoms. :D
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brickbat wrote: Thu Jan 27, 2022 9:39 am We used condoms for 20 years and I always put them on as the trick to wearing a condom for a man for maximum sensitivity is to first lube your member then apply the condom leaving about an inch of the condom loose at the glans end and also lubing the condom on its exterior once on. Condoms applied in that fashion feel more natural and actually move like foreskin over the glans area and also the shaft.

I dont think my wife could have gone thru all the hoops I have described.

Finally, Natural Lamb condoms were worth the money in sensitivity for me as a man. Expensive, but definitely worth it. Appropriate fit is another matter to assess in a man's pleasure. A too tight condom is a killer of male pleasure.

Thank God for vasectomies.
I put them on the same way. Lube on shaft and inside the condom before putting it on and leaving space at the glans all make it feel better. DW likes me to be ready with the condom on when she gives a hand job. For sex need to apply lube to outside of the condom
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DW didn't like the way the pill made her feel so until we were done having kids, we used condoms. I totals about the first 11 years of our marriage. We never felt they impeded our enjoyment in any way.

DW put it on me normally. It was part of the fun.
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Tantalum wrote: Mon Sep 11, 2023 9:46 am ...
In fact my wife hated the experience so much said she would rather have a surprise baby than use condoms. :D
:o That's saying a lot. Not the choice I would make. Both my wife and I would take a condom over a baby any day (and she hates them), especially if DW or I had the ability to make babies. I don't want to be in my mid-70's and DW in her mid-60's with a kid finishing HS.
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newwifenewlife wrote: Thu Sep 14, 2023 4:42 am
Tantalum wrote: Mon Sep 11, 2023 9:46 am ...
In fact my wife hated the experience so much said she would rather have a surprise baby than use condoms. :D
:o That's saying a lot. Not the choice I would make. Both my wife and I would take a condom over a baby any day (and she hates them), especially if DW or I had the ability to make babies. I don't want to be in my mid-70's and DW in her mid-60's with a kid finishing HS.
I guess it sounds a bit extreme and maybe after a surprise baby my wife would have changed her mind but to be fair I have to add that she had quite enjoyed being pregnant with baby number 1 and had an easy time giving birth, so she was fairly relaxed about the idea at the time.
It wasn’t until she was in her mid-forties that the idea of a surprise baby started to worry her, she felt like she was getting too old for such an event. But it didn’t happen and we no longer need to worry.
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We used condoms for the first 7 or 8 years of our marriage. DW almost always put it on me. I know some feel like donning the condom is a hindrance to the event. We never felt that way. It was part of the fun and was a signal of good things on the way.
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We have both put condoms on me, but I prefer doing it. She does not get it stretched tightly enough across the tip, and then, in trying to get it down and straightened out, she has ended-up giving me a hand job. More than once, I have shot my wad into the partially applied condom: it is just best if I do it.
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When we have used them I usually put them on. DW has a few times and I really liked her handling the situation. Always got me a little more excited and meant she was ready for me to penetrate her.
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SeekingChange wrote: Wed Jan 05, 2022 4:23 pm It's been years since we have used them, almost two decades now, but my husband did it all on his own.
Neither of us. We probably used 10 or 12 before my wife said she didn't like the feel of it. We switched to just spermicide, and had two of our children using it. We haven't used birth control for maybe five or six years. She's still having her period, irregularly.
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We had them in use for probably 10 years, hated them. I’m I think he put one on once, rest were me. I tried to weave it into foreplay as best as I could and I think he preferred that as he’s always have me do it
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